Re: Dating
Me too.
I agree. As some of you have said already, I find that guys who are extremely social and friendly tend to become indifferent overtime and not value the friendship as much. If one wasn’t working out as per their expectations, they can just move right along to the next one (as opposed to pursuing the one they really like). This is just based on my experience.
I personally prefer that the guy is approachable and friendly (not uptight to the point that he considers having a conversation or a handshake with a girl to be haraam) but I don’t like if he has been out with every single brown girl in town (even if it’s just for dinner). I wouldn’t want to marry a guy who is so friendly and easygoing that every other girl knows his habits/secrets/likes/dislikes/etc. I also get suspicious of the sincerity of a guy’s interest in me if I know that he can easily switch from one girl to the next without getting emotions attached.
To the OP, I think having a good conversation is a two-way street. You have to look at the next person and know how to carry the conversation or when to stop. Cant’ always blame the guy for an awkward conversation.