let me ask you something. a few years ago, dating was not as common in Pakistan as it is these days. but our social norms remain the same. we still have these arranged marriages.
now sometimes it happens that a person is dating a person and gets married to another person. but she is still in the process of dating the first person. in that case will she be able to move on with her marriage or will she cheat.
what is the general tendency?
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honey its not cheating when woman do that. Its emotional, and its some thing else.
almost every thing else but CHEATING!!!!
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^ lol 
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or may be it is called bay say bheter ki talash. 
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lolzzzzzzzz
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guys, i know what you are saying but it is really a serious question.
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let me ask you something. a few years ago, dating was not as common in Pakistan as it is these days. but our social norms remain the same. we still have these arranged marriages.
now sometimes it happens that a person is dating a person and gets married to another person. but she is still in the process of dating the first person.** in that case will she be able to move on with her marriage or will she cheat. what is the general tendency?**
I think the general tendency is that a girl will move on and stop seeing the first person. Men are much more likely to carry on dating their gfs after marriage imo, I've seen lots of cases like this, perhaps cos they are weaker in terms of temptation (apparently).
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I think the general tendency is that a girl will move on and stop seeing the first person. Men are much more likely to carry on dating their gfs after marriage imo, I've seen lots of cases like this, perhaps cos they are weaker in terms of temptation (apparently).
maybe they can resist anything but temptation. :)
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guys, i know what you are saying but it is really a serious question.
if you cannot see what ppl are saying, here is an answer "keep lid on" Thing belong to hubby.
So do the charm/time and attention.
I hope hubby finds out. he would so an excellent job putting thing in perspective.
Which WILL include a DIVORCE!!!!!
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let me ask you something. a few years ago, dating was not as common in Pakistan as it is these days. but our social norms remain the same. we still have these arranged marriages.
now sometimes it happens that a person is dating a person and gets married to another person. but she is still in the process of dating the first person. in that case will she be able to move on with her marriage or will she cheat. what is the general tendency?
^ its cheating. it doesn't matter who (husband or wife) is doing the "cheating," but it is cheating...there is no such thing as "dating" another person once you are married.
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i had not used the word "cheating" intentionally for some reasons.
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oh we know
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Why not marry the person you are "dating"?
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I am just counting the posts till, when women being women turn this filthy topic into normal discussion.
And try to help fellow woman in a REAL life EMOTIONAL issue,
hmmm
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let me ask you something. a few years ago, dating was not as common in Pakistan as it is these days. but our social norms remain the same. we still have these arranged marriages.
now sometimes it happens that a person is dating a person and gets married to another person. but she is still in the process of dating the first person. in that case will she be able to move on with her marriage or will she cheat. what is the general tendency?
"in process of dating" is a very vague sentence...
1) she is actively seeing the person
2) she is no longer seeing te person but has not officially called it off.
if it is the former than there is an issue, if it is the latter, well sometimes distances give people teh hint, you can stop seeing someone, you can end it from your side.
lastly, in some cases, it can be that a guy and girl are in the same uni are interested, go out a couple of times, and in teh girls mind its not working out so she just stops going out with the person, they may see each other on campus or may even be in the same events have teh same group of friends..
unless there is a commitment, if its a few dates then its not always necessary to 'call it off' because there was nothing to call off to begin with.
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let me ask you something. a few years ago, dating was not as common in Pakistan as it is these days. but our social norms remain the same. we still have these arranged marriages.
now sometimes it happens that a person is dating a person and gets married to another person. *but she is still in the process of dating the first person. in that case will she be able to move on with her marriage or will she cheat. * what is the general tendency?
I don't know what world you live in but where i'm from--that's CHEATING.
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another word is zina ...... for such extracurricular activities whether married or unmarried
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jaanaan - as for your question about general tendency, I believe in most of the cases they move on and close the previous ventures/adventures. Which is a very decent thing to do. Dating has become very common, but once you settle down, you settle down.
In some cases, women do keep those old ties. And if they are seeing other guys while they are married, it definitely is cheating. One shouldn't to others what they would not like done to themselves, if that makes sense.
aramis - honey that is an interesting assumption, but to your disappointment that pink thing is not happening in all cases.
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He is not asking what do you guys call or think about the act. He's just asking if it is common that people continue doing it after getting married.