Re: dating while married
^ i've never heard about anything like this, especially where the husband/wife is happy with their other half doing it. constitutes as cheating in any book, if theyre going out as friends then no, it can be justified but since you said 'dating' its entirely wrong and immoral and more so against our religion.
Re: dating while married
ssumption, but to your disappointment that pink thing is not happening in all cases.
when you are right u are right!!!
There is bunch of other stuff to do.
1-first base.
2-second base
3-3rd base
4-home run (zana)
Up till 3 its all good!!!
Re: dating while married
Ok I don’t know what these bases consist off:konfused: but any physical contact out of the ordinary would consist as cheating.
Re: dating while married
They are common norms In guy talk. first base is kiss and it gradually travels.
I dont need to say which direction.
Ppl tend to say, NO home run all is good???? MY A$$!!!!!!!!
I have seen chick saving one part ofr family life while , treating ppl with the rest.
And its consider NORMAL is english speaking paindoo!!!!
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Any base is cheating!Does not matter if it is a man or woman in question. Same rule applies.
Re: dating while married
omg are u talking about what i think ru talking about??? 
umm so physical constitutes cheating, fair enough
but wht about chatting/texting? or just hanging out (no touching)? Then?
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^ if the other half knows about it, and accepts it then no it is not cheating. BUT i you do it behind their back, even if it is just chatting/texting, the fact that youre hiding it means you yourself know it is inappropriate.
Re: dating while married
hmmmmm
u know sara, its not rocket science. Say if I cross limit in any way I would know while doing it. That is IF I am with(married/engaged) to a person who believe in chastity. values etc etc
Then if the chick can give up on her little fun, then she is going to allow/some-what-push me into doing it too.
I have been working with around all kinds (kala/gora/chines) AND only paki/indians chicks do that!!!
To other ppl its a NO NO.
I do believe its our indian roots in action.
Cuz after watching “dehli heights” I asked an indian is that normal in india to be around some one else’s woman? Touch her(on hand/shoulder) while talking.
he said YES!!!
In pak its not normal at all!!! but we get here(west) there wo go… indian movie culture again!!
Re: dating while married
Ok I understood the first post as a girl is dating a guy, maybe is in love with him, but parents arrange her marriage with someone else. Nothing happened between her and the boyfriend no breakup, nothing of that sort, she just got arranged marriage to someone else. Adn the question is would she be able to end it with him easily and start her married life clean and pure with him nowhere in sight, or would those feelings and that relationship carry on over to her married life?
So to that, I'd say its very hard. I have a friend of kafkazi jewish heritage and she's been dating a muslim guy for the past 4 years. She's already 25, proposals have stopped coming for her, adn her family wants her married. Her boyfriend's mother doesnt accept her, so there's no marriage talks happening there. Ever. She recently finally just gave in and got engaged (arranged) to some guy from her community (the parents said yes on her behalf.. kinda forced). But she still sees the muslim guy and really loves him. She said she feels nothing at all for her fiance and so she doesnt consider it cheating, but definitely will stop closer to the wedding date.... im sure she's gonna stop one day. If not on her own, teh distance (she's moving to another state after marriage) will kill the relationship. You cant really say its wrong and what you'd do until you're in that place. Thats why I just dont understand parents who quickly marry off their kids when they find out that they're dating or something. Its not a good foundation for a marriage and its not a solution. It's pretty sickening but at the same time those feelings are kinda hard to destroy from one day to the next.
Re: dating while married
In countries and societies where polygamy is common (mid east, some parts of Pakistan), wouldn't this be common?