I don’t think a guy and girl should be on the phone for hours everyday. I’d encourage texting over that. You wanna leave some conversations for after the marriage. And yes, meeting while surrounded by friends and family is better… it’s more chaperoned. It’s better to go out to watch a movie or eat dinner with siblings, cousins, or friends present than alone. But that’s my opinion. I don’t encourage anyone to marry someone without a good amount of interaction, but that interaction needs to be within limits. In the end, dating and limits vary from person to person.