If you date, you date. It’s up to each individual where your limits are. Some go further than others, males and females included.
Physical or not, at the end of the day we are responsible to what we do or don’t do. As long as you’re comfortable with your limits and won’t judge another more badly for having done the same then where’s the issue. After all we’re al born into a world with dissimilarities in upbringing.
Be with someone who’s past you can be comfortable with, after all a past is a past. And for those who’d rather not get with someone with a past through personal choice or action, respect to you and look to others who share same view.