Thats why its fun.
dude I know the family real well, i used to have my meals with them.
If we go hiking they want me to take care of their little kids , since I have more experience out doors.
Stuff like that.
Still in ramzan, if DIL is home she will send me aftar food. Reminds me of our own women in pakistan.
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but you still didnt explain how you know about this incident.
did you witness it yourself?
is it hearsay? if so, from whom?
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judge sahib,
as I said in first post ABCD wanted it off his chest. So told me.
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PM... Looking at an "18-year-old magazine" is not only confined to ABCD's. Anybody from any culture in any country could be looking at that trash.
The sad thing is that the grandfather is suffering because of his son's lie. He probably feels hurt and insulted by the accusation and what grieves him most is that he can't spend quality time with his grandchildren anymore like he used to.
PM.....The grandfather is old and he should be allowed to spend time with his children. With age, there's no telling how long one is going to live. And he shouldn't be deprived like this. What happened is like a Zulm in a way. So....I would also suggest that you speak to the children's mother in private. Tell the mother that the magazine actually belonged to the 30-year-old ABCD and he got so scared and blamed it on his father. Tell her that the 30-year-old ABCD feels embarrassed and guilty about what he did. Maybe when the the mother finds out that the ABCD feels guilty....she'll be less angry and you can even tell her not to tell the ABCD that YOU told her everything because you don't want to get into trouble.
^ABCD is still young and has his whole life ahead of him....maybe by telling the woman, you'll be able to teach this dude a lesson......when she starts keeping her children away from HIM!
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I don't think he's a perv for looking at pron (thats a different issue) but shifting the blame on an innocent person (his father) who is now suffering (by not being able to spend time with his grandchildren like he should) is royally messed up...
and PM dude this guy is a sleazebucket, but cmon... why u gotta bring ABCDs into it? that's not cool at all man not cool.
BTW ,
every single time A ABCD has issue with his father and he want to discuss. The he starts talking I time it. Usually in 5 min. I hear "he is so stupid" he = father
Point is ABCD boys have very little respect for there fathers.
Other famous phrase "i have had enough of it"
Stuff like that.
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^ Look, PM........we get it. This ABCD guy is a jerk and has no respect for his dad. BUT YOU CAN'T CHANGE HIM. NOBODY CAN CHANGE HIM. HE HAS TO REALIZE THAT ON HIS OWN.
In the mean time, what are YOU going to do about the situation besides complaining? There is an innocent old man who has a dirty stain on his reputation and is not allowed to freely spend time with his own grandchildren. So, what are you going to do to help the situation?
You have a good relationship with the bhaabi right? Meet with her in private and tell her that you have a lot of respect for her family and that you feel it your duty to share something important and that you hope it won't affect their relationship with you. And tell her the truth. Free this old man from his misery! And tell the bhabi that you are trusting that she will handle the situation without involving him in a manner that will make you uncomfortable. Tell her that you told her this information because she's like a sister to you and you think it's unfair for an old man not to be with his grandchildren.
Maybe the bhabi won't tell the ABCD that you told her. Maybe she'll just be more careful around the ABCD in the future.....and start allowing the grandfather to hang out with the kids again. She can do all this without creating a scene.
In the mean time, what are YOU going to do about the situation besides complaining? There is an innocent old man who has a dirty stain on his reputation and is not allowed to freely spend time with his own grandchildren. So, what are you going to do to help the situation?
good question....doesn't seem like he is about to do anything except make a mockery of the situation here....
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^ and abcds.
So my landord's son, a ABCD, is big perv. I MEAN COME ON ABCDs where the HELL ARE values ??????? Where did you lose your BACKBONE??????? that if you ever had it!!!!
According to Google official statistics, Pakistan ranks as the top nation in searches for the word SEX and some other explicit terms which are just too horrific to mention.
Punchingmunk don't soley blame ABCDs, share the hate a little.
According to Google official statistics, Pakistan ranks as the top nation is searches for the word SEX and some other explicit terms which are just too horrific to mention.
Punchingmunk don't soley blame ABCDs, spread the hate a little.
And would you care to share that Google official statistics report with us ? a link would be good enough.
What PM is trying to say is that ABCDs are somewhat oblivious to our Islamic and Pakistani cultural values and don't comprehend the importance of these relationships. Simple truth... (Many ABCDs are not like that, I like to think a majority is not like that)
May Allah take a son like that back before he is able to do what he did to his father.
^ Look, PM........we get it. This ABCD guy is a jerk and has no respect for his dad. BUT YOU CAN'T CHANGE HIM. NOBODY CAN CHANGE HIM. HE HAS TO REALIZE THAT ON HIS OWN.
In the mean time, what are YOU going to do about the situation besides complaining? There is an innocent old man who has a dirty stain on his reputation and is not allowed to freely spend time with his own grandchildren. So, what are you going to do to help the situation?
You have a good relationship with the bhaabi right? Meet with her in private and tell her that you have a lot of respect for her family and that you feel it your duty to share something important and that you hope it won't affect their relationship with you. And tell her the truth. Free this old man from his misery! And tell the bhabi that you are trusting that she will handle the situation without involving him in a manner that will make you uncomfortable. Tell her that you told her this information because she's like a sister to you and you think it's unfair for an old man not to be with his grandchildren.
Maybe the bhabi won't tell the ABCD that you told her. Maybe she'll just be more careful around the ABCD in the future.....and start allowing the grandfather to hang out with the kids again. She can do all this without creating a scene.
you know what I never read your post cuz they are too long, But after reading these two posts . I got to admit you make so much sense that its scary. hmmmmmm
According to Google official statistics, Pakistan ranks as the top nation is searches for the word SEX and some other explicit terms which are just too horrific to mention.
Punchingmunk don't soley blame ABCDs, spread the hate a little.
hun do another search to find out how many pakis blame it on there fathers.
or how many pakis call there father "stupid"
good question....doesn't seem like he is about to do anything except make a mockery of the situation here....
Girl I am thinking!! hmmm
^ and abcds.
easy targets lolzzz
you know what I never read your post cuz they are too long, But after reading these two posts . I got to admit you make so much sense that its scary. hmmmmmm
I'm not offended in the least bit that you don't read my posts. However, if this post of mine makes sense to you......then take into consideration......and do the right thing. Life is too short for some innocent old man to lose his reputation and his grandchildren because of someone else's nasty mistake. Perhaps you can help free him.
what wit you girls??
Every one knows I have short attention span, so I cant read long posts.
Plus I said you make much sense. That your post can make me do some thing . I am not planning to do
hmmmmm
you know what I never read your post cuz they are too long, But after reading these two posts . I got to admit you make so much sense that its scary. hmmmmmm
I do the same in red bold.... :D:D:D:D
PM, I gave you exact same advice like 30 posts ago, the only difference is, it was precise, short and to the point...
:D
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^ And yet it seems that my longer post had more impact.
RealityCheck, you have some serious growing up to do. Your continuous insulting of my posts is really getting old. It's like harrassment. The moderators should give you a much needed realitycheck on respect. Seriously, you're not on the playground here.
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^ RV...his posts reek of male chauvanism. And its pretty obvious he considers this immature attitude of his "cool" and "witty" which is why he still sticks to it...regardless of the fact that most people ignore this rudeness.
Dont waste your time on him.