Dahej/Dowry ideas

Please help i need to make a list as soon as possible.

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fashion? furniture and home stuff included? is this for u? and what is ur budget and where will u buy it from?

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Furniture, appliances etc are all my dads areas of concern

fashion, makeup, clothes are the things i need to buy on my own so i need some ideas.

budget is no problem...so please just give some ideas; although i have a list made already but i just feel i am missing out on some things.

1st make general list of things u want e.g

1.makeup(products,brusehes,makeup cleanser etc)
2.perfumes(body perfumes,room freshner etc)
3.clothes(bridal wear,party wear,
4.shoes(sandles,boots etc)
5.decoration stuff(frames,candles etc)
6.hair accessories(clips,ponys,hair chater etc)
7.lotions n creams(eg body products,hair products n skin etc)
8.hair removing machine(if u use)
9.hair straightner or curler etc(if u r usung or u like 2 use it )
10.hair dryer(i think eske zarorat huge:P)

baki stuff tu apke abu kare hai .ab jo apne ke hai ess ke detais me ar jana pare ga eg if u starts from makeup then its like ;-
1.fondation
2.powder
3.liner
4.mascara
5.lipstick
6.lip gloss
7.blushes
8.eye shadows
9.pallette(must buy1 at leat osme sare colors hute hai )
10.shimmers(body n face )
hp u didnt miss anything n hp i didnt:P

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does everything have to be brand new? What do you do with ur existing makeup and accessories n hair dryers n epilators and what not?

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Good question femme.

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i still have my old favourite ones and the ones in working condition with me .. things from every category and clothes !

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I think the most imp/prominennt thing (that should be new) is the clothes nad jewelery. Other than that, everything else u can use what u already have or just keep buying it. IMO buying every single thing brand new (when u already have a lot) jst seems to be for showing off…srry :halo:

*if u r buying something new it means either u r not satisfy with the old 1 or u like the old 1 but due to some damage(garuntee katam hu gae e.g)u r buying new one(ya pir as sara516 says for shaosha lol sorry)
i think agar apne koe chez new le hai shadi sai kuch months pahle tu u can take it wd u.
*estemal wala makeup agr bas ek do ya rarely use keya hai tu le jana chaheyai lekin agr woh cheez apne bht use ke ha ar katam hune lage hai tu new lai lo.
*accessories ....shoes...aritifical jewels etc agr apke inlaws deek chuke hai tab tu i guess u should buy new1(its my opinion zarori nahi sab yahi sochay)agr nahi tu take it wd u if it looks new ar garab nahi tu lai jana chaheyai:)
*hair dryer ap deek lai keya oske guarantee katam tu nahi huwe ar agr hai tu ketna ar chalay ga agr ek do months mai katam hure hai tu buy new n give the old to sis lol
*i'll say the same abt the cloths if u have dresses jo apke inlaws ne nahi deke tu lai jao ar agr apne sirf 1 ya do baar koe dress pehna hai tu woh be lai gai sath tu koe fark nahi parta u can use it later shadi kai suru mai nahi tu aram sai baad mai pehan sakte hu.

baki sabke marzi ye tu mera opinion ta:)

Thats a helpful list thanks...i certainly didn't miss the things as in makeup etc but yeah i need to write down what i need in cosmetics etc.

I do have loads of stuff and a lot of things which i have bought are not used but i am just adding stuff to the ones which i already have and don't use for now (just in case) as well as it will only increase my things...however makeup is not my only concern because i have like loads of it like professional people do i just don't use it :S - clothes, jewelery shoes etc same goes for them as well - and i will use the good ones which i have already used before as well but this list is just to take some load of my shoulders and know what to get, what to buy and where to go thats all :)

Lol not showing off but you know when you are new and all its ok to use the used stuff if its good but it looks bad when you open a blush and its broken or scratched which i don’t mind using now or later on when there won’t be any spot light on my head…

Nah, i believe agar chaant waant kar achi cheezein jo aapkay paas hai woh blahay say nay dekhi hain you can take them along with you - like i have really good clothes etc which i have worn once twice but they are still as good as new so i don't mind taking them along with me since i would obviously live there after a few months so i'd need to have mix clothes for other days as well, i can't just keep on taking out new brand clothes all my life...but then the first few days when if not the in-laws then the people who come to meet and all do check out stuff like kaisay kapray pehnay, kitnay kangan, dekhay huay ya nahi etc...just like makeup if something is good and it looks good on you you would use it regardless of whether its chipped or broken here and there but when you go out and take such things out of the purse even if they are branded and highly expensive people would give you the weird look and all..

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What about a home in Beverly Hills , A BMW car add these to the list and leave everything out.
How on earth will anybody know what you can afford to include in your dowry and what is expected of you by your future in laws, you should be asking this question to them, if they do not want anything then why sweat over it ?

P. S: I am not trying to be nasty or insulting just a voice of reason. So please forgive me if my words hurt you.

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dont forget a lota, its really hard to find a good lota here.

*I changed my post so mods can't give me warning points :p

Thanks for the suggestion but tell someone in your family such pointers probably they'll find it helpful.

If you post it in a public forum everybody is free to pitch in their ideas whether you like it or not.
Your insulting remarks even after my advance apology show how well mannered you are.

way ahead of ya sunshine, brother got married a few years ago, I told him to demand a lota in dowry.

a stainless steel one is best. med weight, if its too heavy to start with then with water its tougher to use.

some ppl like the matte finish, the peetal ka lota, they are classic and light but I dont like the look. a chrome finish stainless steel one is the best.

the key is that the top of the lota must be grip friendly.

all the best.

I changed my post so mods can't give me warning points :p