Re: Dads are not stupid
From what I have seen it’s usually moms who have a hard time letting go of control or letting dads do more.. My husband had to stay at home with our son for six months and let’s say I still showed up at the docs appt from work.. It wasn’t needed, he was very capable and knew everything about his son but it was hard for me to let go being the mom.
Yes moms need a break and most of us here get that often due to supportive husbands alhamdulillah but majority here won’t be thrilled if dad just took care of everything.. It’s the mothers nature to double/ triple check.. I was afraid how my son will adjust while I wa away with the second baby but it made no difference to him.. His needs were being met by his dad just like with me.. It was me asking over n over again did he eat.. How much did he play.. Etc etc
Alhamdulillah for wonderful husbands and amazing dads that most of us have.. Not everyone is that lucky
this.
My begum had her doubts too and she still calls home to ask if I have turned off the stove after warming up the food for kids or if the handle of the pan on the stove is towards “inside” instad of “out side” duh!