I dont talk about this often, certainly not with my family and hesitate discussing it with my friends too, probabaly because they all are still blessed to have their fathers still with them…So I am hoping talking about it here might help me. It will be 7 years in December since I lost my daddy…I miss him so much and often cry at nights when thinking about him… Life feels so strange and hollow without him in it, its as if some one has snatched the roof off our heads. I miss the warmth, love, security and protection that my daddy gave me. I am so confused without him, life seems incomplete without him. he was only 45 years old when he passed away, and he went in the most tragic and tormenting way one could imagine. It pains me so much everytime I remember those moments. RIP daddy. I love you and I miss you so much. I love the way you used to hug me and kiss me on my forhead every morning.
Do you have any sweet memories with your fathers? Share them with me…
We little knew that morning
That God would call your name.
In life we loved you dearly;
In death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you,
But you did not go alone,
For part of us went with you
The day God called you home.
You left us beautiful memories,
Your love is still our guide,
And though we cannot see you,
You are always by our side.
Our family chain is broken
And nothing seems the same,
But as God calls us one by one,
The chain will link again.
I remember when I was a kid, I used to wake up in the middle of night shouting "pani pani" and be it cold nights of winter, my father used to get up and bring a glass of water in my room 1,.,,,2,,,,,3,,,,, times in a night without even 1 "ufffff"
Awwww We’re all here on a temporary basis. People have to go. It is hard getting over the trauma but with time you get used to someone’s absence.
May Allah bless us all
oh honey.. this brought tears to my eyes.. such a beautiful poem. I am not going to tell you to have sabr and all that because I can't even imagine what you have gone through and the pain. May Allah grant Jannat to your daddy and I hope for happiness and sabr for you.
Parents are a blessing from Allah and I can't imagine the pain of losing your parents at an early age :(
No words I write can ever say
How much I miss you every day.
As time goes by, the loneliness grows;
How I miss you, nobody knows!
I think of you in silence,
I often speak your name,
But all I have are memories
And photos in a frame.
No one knows my sorrow,
No one sees me weep,
But the love I have for you
Is in my heart to keep.
I've never stopped loving you
I'm sure I never will;
Deep inside my heart,
You are with me still.
Heartaches in this world are many
But mine is worse than any.
My heart still aches as I whisper low,
"I need you and I miss you so."
The things we feel so deeply
Are often the hardest to say,
But I just can't keep quiet any more,
So I'll tell you anyway.
There is a place in my heart
That no one else can fill;
I love you so, Dad,
And I always will.
I remember when I was a kid, I used to wake up in the middle of night shouting "pani pani" and be it cold nights of winter, my father used to get up and bring a glass of water in my room 1,.,,,2,,,,,3,,,,, times in a night without even 1 "ufffff"
I love him!
and Allah aap ke walid kee maghfarat karey !
aameen.
such a high maintenance kid you were :ASA:
Pls don't tell us how much U use to wet your bed after drink waters 3 time a night :D
just consider yourself lucky because your have beautiful memories of your father and he was an important part of your life. Many children and adults don’t have such memories to share and they don’t have anything to miss about their daddies because daddy was never a part of their life.
I dont talk about this often, certainly not with my family and hesitate discussing it with my friends too, probabaly because they all are still blessed to have their fathers still with them....So I am hoping talking about it here might help me. It will be 7 years in December since I lost my daddy....I miss him so much and often cry at nights when thinking about him.... Life feels so strange and hollow without him in it, its as if some one has snatched the roof off our heads. I miss the warmth, love, security and protection that my daddy gave me. I am so confused without him, life seems incomplete without him. he was only 45 years old when he passed away, and he went in the most tragic and tormenting way one could imagine. It pains me so much everytime I remember those moments. RIP daddy. I love you and I miss you so much. I love the way you used to hug me and kiss me on my forhead every morning.
Do you have any sweet memories with your fathers? Share them with me....
We little knew that morning
That God would call your name.
In life we loved you dearly;
In death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you,
But you did not go alone,
For part of us went with you
The day God called you home.
You left us beautiful memories,
Your love is still our guide,
And though we cannot see you,
You are always by our side.
Our family chain is broken
And nothing seems the same,
But as God calls us one by one,
The chain will link again.
Aww Baby :( I know no words can console you so i wont even try. But know that your dad above wont like if his dear daughter is sad, so be happy for his sake. Live for his happiness and make your life a mission to fulfil your dad's dreams, to do something for your dad; anything that would make him proud of you. :) All the best. May Allah give you more strength to cope with this loss and may your life be filled with so much love that you feel your dad's love in all of it :).
I can imagine what you go through day in and out, i lost my dad when i was 13 ... it was 12 years ago but the mere mentioning of his name still brings tears in my eyes, i miss him so so much!
:(
Inna Lillahe Wa Inna Elayhe Rajeoon. May Allah swt bless my father, your father and everyone's parents with high ranks in Jannat-ul-Firdos and forgive their sins. I hope our deeds and actions are such that with Allah swt's rehm, we get to live with them in the hereafter, Ameen.
i for one can not even imagine your pain but don't bottle up your emotions. some people find it very hard to share their feelings but you will feel the better for it. Allah the most merciful created us and only Allah holds the right to take away what he has created. may Allah grant your Father the best of Jannah and protection from the fire of Hell, Ameen..
“To Allaah belongs whatever He takes and whatever He gives. Everything has an appointed time with Him. Have patience and hope of a reward from Him.” (Reported by al-Bukhaari, no. 6829). May Allaah bless our Prophet Muhammad.
be patient and have true belief and trust in Allah and surely Allah the most compassionate will ease your grief.. pray for your father and give charity in his name for the Sake of Allah. in that way not only are you helping yourself but also your father.
May Allah grant you peace. Ameen
We’re all here on a temporary basis. People have to go. It is hard getting over the trauma but with time you get used to someone’s absence.
