Dad & Khala

[StrangeOne]

Re: Dad & Khala

@pastriess1989

Spoke to her on Sunday when she called my dad on viber.
Coincidentally, we had guests my dad had to attend to.

So I told her dads not talking to me and she asked why.
It was a civil convo.

Basically she said eventually we will agree, & how this is better for us kids. I repeatedly told her we object to it. But she remained persistent. In the end I gave up talking to her about it. Oh and she mentioned how after my mum’s death she will never be able to sit alone with my dad unless she marries him (doesn’t stop the 2am phone calls tho does it). She also mentioned certain things which make it apparent dad tells her everything. Basic things about who said what to whom, who wears what, etc etc

Next time you talk to her can you ask her to just wait a couple of months before proceeding any further. That you’re not done grieving for your mother and it’s very hard for you see the postive so waiting might make the situation easier (yes, you can be lying your ass off). If she doesn’t even take such a heartfelt request seriously then there’s something very fishy.

And at least be glad the 2am talks involve what you’re wearing and doing and nothing sleazy. but yeah seriously stop giving your father info. Ask your siblings to not talk about the topic at all unless he brings it up.