Re: Dad & Khala
To me it looks like its not the fact that he is marrying your khala that is a problem, but it is that he does not acknowledge your feelings about it. Many men are not adept at expressing themselves. And it is particularly difficult at times like these. If you get confrontational, there is only one way your relationship with your dad can go: it will break. You need to find a way to de-escalate it. Talk to your mamus and get them to convince your dad and your khala to take some time. Meanwhile you and your siblings think about it too.