Dad & Khala

Re: Dad & Khala

I don’t think I am being selfish. I do think about how lonely he feels but surely my siblings and I have suffered a loss too. My mum was only 47. You think it’s easy for us? If he’s gonna marry her I can’t stop him. But I’m not gonna stick around and play happy families. My dad ruined his relationship with me. Repeatedly telling me to leave, telling my uncles I’m looking for excuses to run away etc. Which Pakistani man says that?

For 3 months I’ve done all the cooking, cleaning, ironing on time whilst working fulltime. And being the mum socially too to please our stupid society. But I’m selfish right?

If he’s so adamant on marrying her, why do my uncles not know they talk at all houra of the night and why does he deny wanting to marry her to them?