**i am a living example here on this forum. ours lasted for 5 years...keeping in touch 2-3 hours a day, everyday for 5 years, over the fone, on the net and by texting. she was in Pakistan and studying while i was in Canada and working. we never ever met in person but still we could hear eachother's heartbeat. when she finished her studies after 5 years, my bro and bhabhi talked to her parents and asked her hand for me in holy matrimony but guess what? they declined coz we are Indians and they are Pakistanis. does sarhad matter that much? aren't we muslims? and another surprise, she failed to tell her parents that we were in love for the last 5 years. parents prolly didn't take it seriously enuf. Had she told her parents, may be just may be the outcome may have been more favourable. and guess one more time...she was married off to someone in the relations within 6 months. she called me twice since then...once right before she got married and the other time when she got a son. kahne lagiiN mubaarak ho tum maamuuN ban gaye...sick!
maHboob became maamuuN...:(
sochaa thaa k kabhii milengi to poochheNgi k kia Haal haiN to yeh do she'r sunaa duuNgaa jo maiN ne likhe:
Khush huN maiN k Khush hai tu, dunyaa terii aabaad hai
kia kahuuN, kaise kahuuN; dunyaa merii barbaad hai :(
log poochheNge tirii shakl, tiraa rang-e-libaas
mujh se hogaa na kuchh izhaar, bahooot door na jaa!
kuchh uskii majboorii ne, kuchh mujh par uskii qasam-e-Khaamoshii ne zindagii ajeeran banaa di...kaash vo Khush rahe, shaad rahe, aabaad rahe...aameen!**
is is barey barey dhokey dekhey hai pyaar mein...i know ppl who were together 24*7 for 8yrs n thn got married n the guy cheated/became domestic abuser towards his wife.Jab aag mein kudey he ho to pata hona chaiye ke yah yeh shayad jala deygi.risk to har chiz mein hai off internet love or on the internet!!!
is is barey barey dhokey dekhey hai pyaar mein...i know ppl who were together 24*7 for 8yrs n thn got married n the guy cheated/became domestic abuser towards his wife.Jab aag mein kudey he ho to pata hona chaiye ke yah yeh shayad jala deygi.risk to har chiz mein hai off internet love or on the internet!!!
**
i think she was genuine...she had true love...but wasn't brave enuf...just like...it happens in real world. well, its over!**
did ur bhabi and bro actually went to pakistan to meet her parents?
**i am a living example here on this forum. ours lasted for 5 years...keeping in touch 2-3 hours a day, everyday for 5 years, over the fone, on the net and by texting. she was in Pakistan and studying while i was in Canada and working. we never ever met in person but still we could hear eachother's heartbeat. when she finished her studies after 5 years, my bro and bhabhi talked to her parents and asked her hand for me in holy matrimony but guess what? they declined coz we are Indians and they are Pakistanis. does sarhad matter that much? aren't we muslims? and another surprise, she failed to tell her parents that we were in love for the last 5 years. parents prolly didn't take it seriously enuf. Had she told her parents, may be just may be the outcome may have been more favourable. and guess one more time...she was married off to someone in the relations within 6 months. she called me twice since then...once right before she got married and the other time when she got a son. kahne lagiiN mubaarak ho tum maamuuN ban gaye...sick!
maHboob became maamuuN...:(
sochaa thaa k kabhii milengi to poochheNgi k kia Haal haiN to yeh do she'r sunaa duuNgaa jo maiN ne likhe:
Khush huN maiN k Khush hai tu, dunyaa terii aabaad hai
kia kahuuN, kaise kahuuN; dunyaa merii barbaad hai :(
log poochheNge tirii shakl, tiraa rang-e-libaas
mujh se hogaa na kuchh izhaar, bahooot door na jaa!
kuchh uskii majboorii ne, kuchh mujh par uskii qasam-e-Khaamoshii ne zindagii ajeeran banaa di...kaash vo Khush rahe, shaad rahe, aabaad rahe...aameen!**
It is possible to find internet love. It's just like meeting in any other capacity - in person, through friends, at work, over the internet.
In fact, one could argue that it is possible to get to know someone better when talking to them online - you aren't influenced by something that you see - you fall for their words and their personality.
Obviously it is also important to be very careful lol, there are a lot of weirdo people out there!
did ur bhabi and bro actually went to pakistan to meet her parents?
no, coz we didn't get to that point. u call first, ithey show interest then you go and meet especiallly when long distances are involved. They wud have gone in an instant if they asked for a meeting.
It is possible to find internet love. It's just like meeting in any other capacity - in person, through friends, at work, over the internet.
In fact, one could argue that it is possible to get to know someone better when talking to them online - you aren't influenced by something that you see - you fall for their words and their personality.
Obviously it is also important to be very careful lol, there are a lot of weirdo people out there!
*true, one has to be careful coz u don't see the person behind the screen. i was lucky i guess to be with an honest person. she was what she said she was. souring relations between India N Pakistan played a significant role. They didn't want her daughter to be going to india. she could have become Canadian Citizen in 3 years but india was the reason given to me. *
*true, one has to be careful coz u don't see the person behind the screen. i was lucky i guess to be with an honest person. she was what she said she was. souring relations between India N Pakistan played a significant role. They didn't want her daughter to be going to india. she could have become Canadian Citizen in 3 years but india was the reason given to me. *
Ahhhh, that is very sad indeed. As the saying goes 'some things are not meant to be...' Unfortunately there are parents out there who put their own issues before their child's happiness.
I find it rather odd that she rang you before getting married and then to let you know she had had a child. Kinda like rubbing salt in the wounds!
Ahhhh, that is very sad indeed. As the saying goes 'some things are not meant to be...' Unfortunately there are parents out there who put their own issues before their child's happiness.
I find it rather odd that she rang you before getting married and then to let you know she had had a child. Kinda like rubbing salt in the wounds!
sounds like but i think she needed a reason to call me...Allah knows the best. i think parents think they have their child's best interest ahead of anything else. well, pairs are made in the heavens and, obviously, we were a mismatch :(
sounds like but i think she needed a reason to call me...Allah knows the best. i think parents think they have their child's best interest ahead of anything else. well, pairs are made in the heavens and, obviously, we were a mismatch :(
Yeh, I totally agree with you. If things aren't meant to be, you can try your damn hardest but they will never happen.
I'm sure Allah has bigger and better things planned for you. Time will tell
and just who says net-love is bogus/silly bla blah…aaj kal we shouldnt be narrowmined itne…well maybe am saying this coz i have fallen i love with someone i met on the net:blush: i met FSK:wub: net pe on a socializin site or whtaever it’s called, we used to share eachother’s problems and mostly kept contact through mails, as at that time i wasnt much of a net user(or msn)…there was nothing like love between us…we were just companions in sorrows…thats all nothing more…we never even called eachother friends…FSK would always advise ma and stuff…encourage me…and ya chalta raha for almost two years..we were very close but not even the slightest bit of love thing dono ke beech…but i’d already started loving FSK…kabhi bataya nai…FSK was the no-nonsense, serious kinda person…but then FSK confessed apna pyaar…tht was like more than 2yrs baad hum dono ke milne ko…and tab we had not even seen eachotehr, pics me bhi nai…but afsos ye he ke kabhi pyaar ka rishta raha hi nai hum dono ke beech:(…and now we’re just companions of eachother apne apne dard me:(…although we both know we love eachother…hum dono ka saath hona mushkil he:(..
hashmat bhai aap ki kahani bi bohot dard se bhari hui he:teary2::
Not really I have seen so many stories ending up in kachra. Experienced it as well. There is no such thing as internet romance. Romance starts once the parties involved meet.
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