curiousityyyy

[NJMasti]

@Iyla

having more than one wife is too common in pakistan espeically where i live!

my next door neighbour’s wife lost her leg in an accident and her husband re-married. i heard she was very upset at first and tried to end her life. but because she had nowhere to run to she put up with her husbands decision. the 2nd wife has a daughter now. he has divided his home into 2 sections i.e. he got another kitchen made upstairs. the 1st wife lives upstairs with her kids and 2nd wife lives downstairs. they all seem really happy now and i always see both the wives taking daily walks after aftari and chit-chatting like friends.

two door’s down an uncle lives with his two wives. his 1st wife couldn’t give him children so he re-married and his 2nd wife gave him four kids. each wife has their own bedroom and the uncle has his own bedroom as well. they seem happy and the kids call one wife ammie and the other amma.

in the same area a close family friend, an uncle married his 1st cousin (from his mum’s side) and they had a love marriage. but he was also in love with his 1st cousin (from his dad’s side) in pakistan!!! 1st wife didn’t know this before. then uncle declared that he would marry his 1st cousin (from his dad’s side) so she wouldnt have to be alone! this caused a lot of problems in the home. she had nowhere to go or live either. i used to feel so sorry for the 1st wife wondering what on earth was going through her mind! now they all live together. the wives act normal infront of us and guests etc but you can see there is no friendship between them at all. 1st told my mum that once they were watching a movie and the 2nd wife cuddled up to the husband, and she felt this and felt left out when he cuddled his 2nd wife back. 1st wife says 2nd wife is his fav’ and she feels this all the time. the 2nd wife once teased the 1st wife that their husband is so obsessed with her bust and this made the 1st wife angry and upset as she was small busted. 1st wife wont leave though saying the day she leaves that home will be for her funeral!!

another uncle has 2 wives. his cousin became widow and 1st wife asked her husband to care for her and marry her! so he did. they all live happily and 1st wife even did the bridal make-up for the 2nd bride. lol.

without bringing islam into it think how would a husband feel if their wife was to marry again bringing in a 2nd husband? i am sure emotionally the 1st husband would find it hard to deal with.

I would move away from this neighborhood - far far far away! and ASAP.

There are few times that you mention -that now they live happily - but HOW? THERE IS NO WAY!

If the hubby is already comparing big boobs to little and making the first wife feel uncomfortable OR if there is a lot of cuddling of ONE wife in FRONT of the OTHER - I mean how can someone NOT feel anything?

I am OUTRAGED that both wife are in the same house - upstairs/downstairs situation!!! WOWWWWWWWW So how does a wife go about making daily dinner/breakfast/lunch? Does she just make t and HOPE AND PRAY that THE GOD would DECIDE to eat at her place? I mean WHAT NON SENSE!

I am absolutely HORRIFIED at this situation. I do not WANT to understand this type of psychology of people in this neighborhood.

So EVERYDAY the woman has to WAIT and SEE where the hubby might decide to go? Or if the hubby is not with her then just assume he is upstairs / downstairs? How terrible !

I would like to chop off the man and make him look more like a woman! I think then ALL can look alike and therefore LIVE HAPPILY EVER AFTER!

I mean now, the hubby just does not have the tool needed to make you way off jealous! Now YOU have the OPTION to go find a better tool lolllll

chop chop chop - ye that works very well! Never underestimate the power of FEELINGS with hubby when he LOOKS ALIKE downstairs in situations such CHEAP

more chopping <==== very satisfying !