Re: Crush proof age
I could buy her a ring and put it on her wedding finger but the problem is, when you are with a group of people in a professional setup, such acts will not only cause her embarassment and kill whatever chances I may have but can also land me in trouble.
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Ok, but you need to seize the moment ... take charge and if you can plan ahead ... Try little ways of taking up more of her time and slowly she will get the message - ask for a coffee or to walk her home ... And stay sensible please ... :)
Thanks for all the suggestions. I have been trying this and a lot more :)
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I could buy her a ring and put it on her wedding finger but the problem is, when you are with a group of people in a professional setup, such acts will not only cause her embarassment and kill whatever chances I may have but can also land me in trouble.
No maait ... That is too much too quickly ... You need to first invite her for a private conversation in a public place ... Get talking to her find out about her ... she may already have a relationship ... tell her about yourself ... do things together like go for a walk along the riverside - you can't spring out a ring on her finger - that is just a big no no ...
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Thanks for all the suggestions. I have been trying this and a lot more :)
No don't thank me ... I can tell you are getting this all wrong ... so what happened when you last asked her to come with you to a coffee place for a drink?
Is it better to continue this conversation by PM ???
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No maait ... That is too much too quickly ... You need to first invite her for a private conversation in a public place ... Get talking to her find out about her ... she may already have a relationship ... tell her about yourself ... do things together like go for a walk along the riverside - you can't spring out a ring on her finger - that is just a big no no ...
No don't thank me ... I can tell you are getting this all wrong ... so what happened when you last asked her to come with you to a coffee place for a drink?
Is it better to continue this conversation by PM ???
aaah looks like u r really interested in solving my problem so I go away and stop spreading fahashi here :D
ok coming back to your questions, I know she is single as she has told everyone that she is single. Taking her to a river sounds like a good idea, but only if I can hold her for more than 30 seconds to get to talk to her in so much details.
Last time I asked for a coffee/drink, she gol moled the answer without yes or no.
Let's keep this discussion here so others can benefit from such valuable advice. Next question please.
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^ She aint intrested bro :P
plus she isnt a muslim, what are you even doing ?
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^ She aint intrested bro :P plus she isnt a muslim, what are you even doing ?
I know she is not interested thats why I'm trying to forget her. Religion doesn't matter in love :) she is from a moderate background and has conservative values (even though she dresses up like a typical westerner) and that is good enough for me.
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Best of wishes buddy!. Why can't ya be honest with her yo?..if that were to happen with me..i would tell her whether she likes to hear it or not. I mean ya like her..what can ya do..But don't give up buddy. Keep trying. Some women play hard to get. Initially she might reject you+her..but afta ya tell her..she'll at least think about it. Call her up for coffee or something.
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^ Thanks.
I think she's gone now for good.
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^ Thanks.
I think she's gone now for good.
Ouch. What happened? :/
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^ She has left for her home country.
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^ She has left for her home country.
:) Sorry to hear that, but then again I always believe everything happens for a reason. Maybe if you had expressed your feelings, it wouldn't have been a good outcome for you... She is gone now, and it will be good that you won't see her around and you can move on. :)
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After you fall in love for the first time and get screwed over :D Than you won't dare go near a girl :--)
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:) Sorry to hear that, but then again I always believe everything happens for a reason. Maybe if you had expressed your feelings, it wouldn't have been a good outcome for you... She is gone now, and it will be good that you won't see her around and you can move on. :)
Thank you. But no outcome would have been bad enough than keeping my feelings to myself.
This is my biggest regret, I will never be able to tell her how I felt for her. Its such a suffocating feeling. Its like keeping an un-erupted volcano inside me and waiting for it to cool down over time.
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After you fall in love for the first time and get screwed over :D Than you won't dare go near a girl :--)
This was not the first time and no I wouldn't avoid going near a girl but I would avoid falling in love.
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Thank you. But no outcome would have been bad enough than keeping my feelings to myself. This is my biggest regret, I will never be able to tell her how I felt for her. Its such a suffocating feeling. Its like keeping an un-erupted volcano inside me and waiting for it to cool down over time.
Well, see I believe even that not happening (you telling her feelings) was for better. And plus, not to sound sceptical, but if she had also felt the same way do you not think she would have said/ or done something to hint you about it? You asked her out for coffee and she played around and didn't give you a yes. So that's why i say look at it from positive side, THANK GOD you didn't express your feelings. :)