Crush proof age

[maait]

Re: Crush proof age

@psyah

Peace maait

Ok, well I’ll be honest with you … you need to create a trigger in your mind that every person of the other gender is a sibling. Then convince yourself of that. I was already crush proof, but an endeavour to become plutonic master … I found this to be the only way that I could rise in a spiritual way. I felt that my level in spirituality came to a drastic drop each time my mind focussed on women … I could not focus on my Lord. I had to set-up methods to stay focussed.

Often there will be a trigger - i.e. something about that person that ensnares you … you need to avoid that part, for example - you said “her voice” - that is called the “avenue of distraction” you need to block that avenue - there may be more avenues you need to block them too. Certain psychological tricks can help do that. I hope that helps.

I don’t want to try so hard to go against nature because from your description it looks harder than the effects of crush itself.