Re: Cross examination of posters.
do i contribute? yes
how i contribute? totally different question
you opened a totally different topic for discussion. maybe you can start another thread and we can talk about it there. lets not completely derail this thread
but simply put when you dont know what to do and you ask for advice and you act upon that advice, you are basing your action on the trust of that people and honestly of that advice - when things go wrong in this particular case 2 blames come out -1 why did you give me the wrong advice 2- why in the world did i listen to him - remember this is when you dont know what to do in a situation and someone who knows tells you what to do -
looking for opinions is a totally different matter