But didn't u say (or is it what they said?) that they spent money on treating him but it didn't work ?
Im just curious, the guy was raised in US u said? If he spent his childhood here...there's no way that he can still be "slow" and have a 5-6 grade education...at least in the US, parents can be punished if the child is taken out of school... I hate to say it but the ones who should have made an "effort" on him were his parents and educators....it seems like all his family wanted was a "nurse" rather than a wife and life partner which sadly is not uncommon
He came to us when he was 17. He is older then the girl about 7 years i think. He has 5 other younger siblings so i guess his parents didnt pay as much attention on him as they relly should have or as they did on the younger ones. And offcourse they more likely did want someone more of nurse then a wife, but the girl was aware of it during the period of 10 years from nikah to rukhsati. I did talk to girl as well on what she wants, and she clearly has no intention of going back to the marriage so were figuring out on what we can do to help her settle down here. Now were being blamed by the guy's side for bringing her here, and the girls dad blames us as well for her decision of divorce. I told my cousin that she has to make her final decision and let the inlaws know of it but she for some reason she is dragging.