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In your blog you said you had 2 kids.
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Re: Coward husband
I tell my own family too if I feel like they say something to my husband thats unfair. To begin with yes my husband should be the one telling his bro not to talk.to him like that but knowing my husband, he will never. His brother thinks too highly of himself and that he can say whatever he wants, ummm not in my house, staying under our roof, thats just not happening. My husband says bus chup ho joa, janay do, I am just not that way. When you see something wrong, speak up. Dont think I am like this with just my in laws. I dont put up with insults no matter who is saying it. I go out of my way to make sure my bil gets his money on time,stayed chup when my husband cant do something for me bcuz he has to think abt his brother first, atleast he can talk to us with respect..... Dont ya think?
u r soo right.....i used to be like dis before marriage but dis marriage ruined everything like everything is so perfect,my n my hubby repect eahother and we love our daughters and as a matter of fact my husband respect my family too much (n care for dem more den i do) but dis one big problem is so annoying.........But yes u r rite and now i guess i need to take extra care of things around me plus i will try to be more distant now (which i already am)
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I tell my own family too if I feel like they say something to my husband thats unfair. To begin with yes my husband should be the one telling his bro not to talk.to him like that but knowing my husband, he will never. His brother thinks too highly of himself and that he can say whatever he wants, ummm not in my house, staying under our roof, thats just not happening. My husband says bus chup ho joa, janay do, I am just not that way. When you see something wrong, speak up. Dont think I am like this with just my in laws. I dont put up with insults no matter who is saying it. I go out of my way to make sure my bil gets his money on time,stayed chup when my husband cant do something for me bcuz he has to think abt his brother first, atleast he can talk to us with respect..... Dont ya think?
Which is totally different than if your family is saying something to/about YOU (and not your husband) and that was my point. I'll stand up for my wife if my family members are being unfair to her, she will stand up for me if her family members are unfair to me. Now if it was something b/w me and my family members and she did not like it, she will talk to me about how she did not like it and what should I do but leave it for me to take care of it. If I want to go easy on my family for whatever reason, its fine.
of course unless its something of epic proportion or something that's harming us (as couple) emotionally or financially.
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In your blog you said you had 2 kids.
yes i have two kids with me right now and one is with my mother who will join us soon......
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You need to stand up and put your BIL in his place. Once my BIL said something mean to my husband.. not even super disrespectful but just told him to mind his own business... I was so pissed. I told him and my other in laws that I am not going to put up with this behavior and that I demand apology. My husband didn't say anything I did. My husband is just too nice.
One thing is standing up for your spouse against **your **family, but what you just described is just too extreme.
I dont think one as a spouse should come between what is happening among siblings. And I for sure do not think that telling someone to mind their own business is rude or disrespectful. Your posts just make it seem like you want your husbands family to worship him like God because he is doing all these things for them (It might not be the case, but it does come across like it).
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One thing is standing up for your spouse against **your **family, but what you just described is just too extreme.
I dont think one as a spouse should come between what is happening among siblings. And I for sure do not think that telling someone to mind their own business is rude or disrespectful. Your posts just make it seem like you want your husbands family to worship him like God because he is doing all these things for them (It might not be the case, but it does come across like it).
No, its their whole attitude with my husband I don't like. Tum baray ho, chup ho jao, tum baray ho, uss ka khayal rakho while I don't see anyone saying the same thing to BIL.. tum chotay ho baroon ki respect karo. They'll say oh he is just hot blooded and will laugh about it. I don't see it funny. The only time my husband said something to them when they were telling me all kind of stuff, MIL said I'll throw her out. Thing is if you don't stand up for yourself and your spouse (I see my husband as someone who does everything for everyone yet is always told to shutup), I do believe that people start taking advantage of you. I see the need to come in between them because even if you errr kill my husband he won't say a word. I ain't gonna let that happen right!
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^ Jeez, even after she said that you still call them nice?
Tumhara dil bohot bara hai mA