u r soo right…i used to be like dis before marriage but dis marriage ruined everything like everything is so perfect,my n my hubby repect eahother and we love our daughters and as a matter of fact my husband respect my family too much (n care for dem more den i do) but dis one big problem is so annoying…But yes u r rite and now i guess i need to take extra care of things around me plus i will try to be more distant now (which i already am)