Cousin- Divorce?

[Muzna]

Re: Cousin- Divorce?

@kakee

shrugs frankly do not care. I did not personally attack anyone. I didn’t mention any names I just had a problem with people saying stuff like this “There is no excuse for an educated woman to tolerate such physical abuse. In fact, if a girl is educated, she should stand up for herself and set an example for other girls who are not as fortunate.” or somehow “She’s an educated professional…obviously from an affluent family…she’s terrified of divorce but not scared to go back to a physically abusive husband? Fears becoming an old maid? Does this mindset still exist in 2014???” it is impossible to believe that someone who is educated and comes from a good family would want to go back to her abusive partner.
As if education or their background had anything to do with it.

That is what I have a problem with. I do not need to convince anyone. I state my opinion which is what others do too. I do not agree with Victims helping themselves first and then going on to say that they should help others who are less fortunate.

yes…it is very apparent that you do not care…and that would be fine except that by having such an attitude with a community where you spend so much time damages your credibility.
why would anyone want to hear you if you show a despondent attitude towards them?
and yes, I know…you really don’t care and just want to say what you know is right in your mind and your opinion and from what you have read. (I would go on to say that you have “experienced” but I’m not certain that’s the case so I’ll stop there.)

even stating your opinion without caring for what others think is perfectly fine (though counter-productive because it defeats the purpose of a discussion board) but by having a “holier than thou” approach and suggesting that anyone with an opinion contrary to your’s is ignorant, wreaks of arrogance. (even if what you are saying is correct.)

and yes, I get it…you don’t care whether or not anyone’s mindset is changed as a result of interacting with the much more enlightened you so I won’t even go down that path, but I do still have a glimmer of hope that you might be interested in growing on a personal level so I’m posting some links that you might find useful. have a read when you have a few moments…

How to Speak Your Mind Without Making Someone Else Wrong
How to avoid causing offence | Happiness Weekly
5 Ways to Stay True to Yourself and Not Offend Others in the Process | Slow Down Fast Personal Coaching and Lifestyle Design ~ David B. Bohl