Re: Cousin- Divorce?
You may not agree with it but to a certain extent even mental health professionals will agree with the idea that until the abused make up their mind to help themselves, no one else can.
I’ve met women who were in abusive relationships, convinced them, talked to them, even arranged counseling for them but until they take a step towards getting helped…an outsider can not do much. I’ve had them ignore me, stop taking my calls, block me on FB, blame me for trying to brain wash them when I all did was give them options according to the situations they were describing.
I don’t think you really know what you’re talking about kakee…it seems as if you’re reading some sort of textbook and copy/pasting stuff. You have no real life experience in this matter and that is obvious.
And YES I do believe wholeheartedly that anyone who makes it out of an abusive situation should do their best to try and help others. Its a healing process and not only can they sympathize but they ACTUALLY understand what is happening versus assuming.