Omg...BSB...how old are you? Are you even in a Western country? Do you have a job?
Jahaiz is not meant to be security. Jahaiz is a paindu concept from non-Muslim ancestors.
Mera dimagh ghoom raha hai...are there more like you? Like an entire family?
Yikes.
Oh gosh.... Every family has their own traditions. My family give jehaiz to their daughters for security and lump sum money so she can save it for herself. It could be car, property, clothes, furniture, accessories, and etc... I definitely not like the idea of forced jahiz or demands from groom side but if parents wanna give things to the daughter with their own happiness then I don't see anything wrong with it... Kisi ko kya pata us bachari larki ka kya hoga.
Oh gosh.... Every family has their own traditions. My family give jehaiz to their daughters for security and lump sum money so she can save it for herself. It could be car, property, clothes, furniture, accessories, and etc... I definitely not like the idea of forced jahiz or demands from groom side but if parents wanna give things to the daughter with their own happiness then I don't see anything wrong with it... Kisi ko kya pata us bachari larki ka kya hoga.
That's usually why parents educate her, so she can support herself if need be.
That's usually why parents educate her, so she can support herself if need be.
See the economy! The job market is very competitive. Yes, a woman should definitely be independent. There is nothing wrong with securing your daughter's future so she doesn't have to beg front of anybody...
Yes… Dream wedding for me is also doing things different than anyone else… Who's baraat comes in ferrari? They use limo, horse, and etc for that! I want spotlights to be focused on me and him while we perform our couple dance! I have thought of many things and can't share them since people here are acting childish!
Honestly, no amount of jahez is going to secure your future. The only thing that can secure your future is your ability to support yourself. Just my two cents.
Honestly, no amount of jahez is going to secure your future. The only thing that can secure your future is your ability to support yourself. Just my two cents.
This. Best gift anyone can give their daughter is education.
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at the same time at your aqal BSB…Grow a brain maybe?
