Hater how? Your husband doesn't even like the way you dress...how can I hate you? :(
Chahoon bhi to nahin kar sakti :(
No, I don't speak english... I have taken American Sign language in high school so that's what I am doing right now. The computer system is generating my signs into words and posting it here...
To answer your question about your comparison question:
"or some people, lots of people around them with lots of fluff (as I call the extravagance) is important. But for someone like me...it makes no difference in how I feel. Everyone has biryani, nihari, desi food, parathay, ten foot stages, 5 foot centerpieces, lots of people, gold, etc. If you go to any photographer's blog, you see the same wedding with different faces...literally no difference and aside from a few color schemes here or there. Its like a pre-determined format everyone follows and just goes through the motions. I've been to so many white tents, banquet halls, seen so many chair covers, etccccccccc...tired of it."
You are putting every wedding into the same category by comparing them to one to another.
In regards to my fiance, he really loves my dressing and that was one of the reasons he has selected me to see my fashion craze and all the girlie germs I posses. Stop exaggerating the thread I have opened up about him wanting me to wear dresses on special occasion to goraa gatherings... It doesn't mean he wants me to change. He is just expressing himself what he likes me to wear on dates and parties... Just the way I have expressed what i want him to wear on special occasion. Most users here take everything to the extreme level even I mentioned that I need to become bit liberal in some matter of life. He has told me how his family thinks that I am very stylish and how he thinks that I am perfect. Ma Sha Allah.... I am not here to give you any proof but stop accusing my fiance for not liking my dressing when that was 1 of the reasons for him to choose me.
I am not comparing them…I am literally lumping these weddings into the same category because they’re all the same. BSB, you don’t seem to have a good handle on words, do you?
And it doesn’t bother me that my post is upsetting you because it is what it is…he doesn’t like your non-feminine ways so he’s trying to squeeze you into a dress that might make you look more like a girl.
The girly germs are common sense but you should try to apply a few of them to yourself.
You are just making false assumptions… I am already feminine enough.. You don’t know me or him so shhhh.. Better believe what I say. There is nothing wrong with my fashion… I dont mind wearing dresses on special occasions…