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^haha...oh yes..which guy doesn't..
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WOW ok, I didnt know that your not a troll. I dont know you, you dont know me. You said 12K will get you an OTT jewlery set. Ive bought sets before, 12k wont get you an OTT jewlery set as a bride. Everyone knows this. Im sorry that calling you a troll has offended you in such a way, to respond in such a way is wow..
It takes less then a second for someone else's problems to become yours. Your getting married soon right? Well if you behave this way in person, lets see how long your marriage lasts. Also, just because I post a problem, doesnt mean this is an everyday occurance. I honestly hope you get what you deserve. Who knows, maybe in 6 months youll be on the forums posting your issues. I'm done with this thread and Im done replying to you.
calm down cpa. this is the issue with posting your problems on forums. incase of a fallout you are well-reminded of your situation whether that's your fault or not. you are not the only one here.
and ill-wishing others doesn't fetch any good either
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Okay this is NOT about making life hard for other people. Be happy for each other. If someone spends 100k on their wedding, maybe they've saved up for it, maybe they're using their education money or trust fund or daddy's paying for it- I don't know. But who cares!?! My friends had weddings at museums that probably cost them half of their graduate education, did I go around trying to compete? no. Did it make my life any harder? no. What the heck.
The only time you should be concerned about affecting someone else is if you're actively taking away something that belongs to them. And also, we all should be strong/happy enough to not feel bad when someone spends a fortune on their wedding, even if we can't.
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The biggest problem is that everyone gets somewhat emotionally involved when answering certain types of questions. So when someone disagrees it ends up causing an ugly scene, because one group is trying to justify their choice to the other group and vice versa.
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Who is DAA BOSS ? 
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Who is your favorite wrestler? You should definitely get an autograph from them!
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People are just showing their true faces ! 
CHILLZZZzzzZZz Hommie! I agree with you 100% ! Having an extravagant wedding was considered taboo here but seems like people are opening their minds now. lol
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Still waiting for fight to finish. 
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There is no wrong or right side buddy on this topic because it is very dependent on ur personal choice. Better to get an autograph from both sides :p. … People come from different backgrounds, mindsets, values, and standards that revolves around the topic of wedding (THE BIG DAY) which adds up to how someone would like to spend. If spending on the wedding isn’t causing people any pain or unhappiness, then staying in it is the choice of higher self. If it feels wrong that you are spending too much, cutting down the budget might be the right choice. However, people who want to have simple weddings are welcome to do so but don’t start bad mouthing people who want to spend…
Thank you very much and I am done with my speech.
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There is no wrong or right side buddy on this topic because it is very dependent on ur personal choice. Better to get an autograph from both sides :p. ... People come from different backgrounds, mindsets, values, and standards that revolves around the topic of wedding (THE BIG DAY) which adds up to how someone would like to spend. If spending on the wedding isn't causing people any pain or unhappiness, then staying in it is the choice of higher self. If it feels wrong that you are spending too much, cutting down the budget might be the right choice. However, people who want to have simple weddings are welcome to do so but don't start bad mouthing people who want to spend...
Thank you very much and I am done with my speech.
Was it really needed? It's not even about you at first place. My both comments was directed towards cpa and pricess88 on their war of words and there was nothing serious about it.
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Wow...
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Wow to see that your thread is still going strong, right? 
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Mine was in Pakistan and I have no clue but I know it was much cheaper than what it would have been if it was in amreeka. Also, I left every detail onto my parents because they knew the budget and what was and was not affordable. hence they didn't feel obligated or guilty about unfullfilled wishes. I read all the replies and my personal opinion is if you can afford a lavish wedding, then go ahead and if you cannot, then make best of what you have. Be smart. Be smart enough to know that the bigger the wedding, the more witnesses you have when you start your new adventure so be prepared to handle the trickery called marriage. Invest in each other as well and not just the wedding stage and the centerpieces. Plenty of issues in a marriage stem from financial stability, so now that I feel like I am a little wiser, invest some of that money for a home or savings because THAT will CUT DOWN so much friction in a newly wed couple just starting fresh. For couples ho have more of a arranged marriage than a love, go on a fabulous honeymoon so you can get to know each other because for a marriage to last you have to know each other. At the end of the the day, the cost of the marriage should not outweigh or reflect how long the marriage will last, it should only be small or big beginning.
A little aunty advice goes a long way. Listen to us!!!
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Credit goes to me 
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Back on topic folks, please.
Speaking of $12K 22K necklace, it seems the gold in the arctic may soon become more accessible. Due to climate change. Thus lowering cost to mine.
My 12 (or 22) paisa opinion - this will increase supply. While demand stays constant. Even a "on the one hand and on the other" type Economist will say without hesitation - this should put pressure on gold prices.
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Okay now its for sure…people who can afford Ferraris would not be caught dead talking like this ^
And its interesting to note that low cost weddings are being associated with affordability?
I haven’t specified that its all I could afford.
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I still want my husband to fly me away in ferrari on the barrat day…
Sorry haters!!! Not going to pick any other car.
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Listen up hater … Stop comparing! lol …
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I have my own taste and I am not changing it for u… Ferrari is classy for me so you back off…
http://media.caranddriver.com/images/13q2/514656/2014-ferrari-laferrari-photo-514663-s-1280x782.jpg