Ah, and going back to one of the topics close to my heart - the couples that say: ***no boxed gifts ***- sadly, they’re usually the ones who throw the grandest party and then expect their guests to pay for the privilege of attending their wedding. The worst are those who thoo-thoo if the cash gift received doesn’t cover the cost of the guest’s meal they paid for.
At the end of the day - celebrate your wedding - but do so in a way that is meaningful and not wasteful.