DO u know it ? how often u guys are depressed and sad over littel things ? i am feeling very low today and i can’t share my parashani with any one .how to get ride of it ? seems like nothing will work today , oh well i want to run far away 
mehroo aapi 
what happenned?
i feel like that too sometimes. ro dho ke bas aisay hi time guzaar leti hoon aur phir ya toh so jati hoon ya koi kitchen ka kaam ker leti hoon jis mein damag naheen lagta aur banda busy bhee ho jata hay ya idhar gupshup pe aa jaati hoon. i dont even like being with my friends at that time coz i get moody and quiet.
hope u feel better 
take a shower and recite some Quran paak u might feel better
take care
yes i am going to do that now irem , i hope mujay thora sakoon milay ga . thanks for reply .
zaroor sakoon milay ga mehroo aapi inshallah..aap fikarmand na hoon we all go thru this sometimes…
take care, hope u feel better
mere laaiq koi khidmat ho toh pm me
dont worry dear...maybe india will win next time
thanku irem …so nice of u chanda
Sheraz bhai who cares about cricket , i have better things to get worry about 
i cud relate to what u were saying thats y i posted in the thread mehroo aapi 
how r u feeling now? hope u r feeling better
I feel that way too, practically ALL the time. By now, I don’t even remember the last time I was happy. But I have reasonable reasons for feeling that way. Muger aap dono khud ko ziyada perayshaan na kiya kerain…“This, too, shall pass.”
Sheraz CT sahab, my uncle died because he had a brain hemorraghe since he was so depressed about his favorite team not winning some hockey match :(. I wish there was some way I could get all men in this world to quit worrying about their favorite teams so much. Not that I don’t support Pakistan’s team…I’m for them 100%. But, you shouldn’t take it that seriously.
heyyyyyy what happpennneddd??? 
aisa kya hua?? there is no reason in the world to remain unhappy all the time sis…we all go thru phases, but to remain perpetually unhappy is nashukri [lack of thanks] to Allah for what He has blessed us…imagine, we could be in baghdad, iraq right now being bombed 
we are so blessed…
cheer up
Thanks Irem Baji :). And I know you’re right…but sometimes, well, sometimes it’s easier to handle being bombed than dealing with some certain other problems. Especially for people like me jo key her baat dil per ley leytay hain aur zeyhan pey sawaar kerleytay hain. I know it’s really bad to be that sensitive, so I try to change this about me, but that’s almost impossible, though I’m working at it. You probably think that it’s very ridiculous for me to be unhappy all the time…and I don’t blame you for thinking that way…but if only you knew why I’m that way…
…But never mind, let’s not worry about me, we were talking about mehroo here. Mehroo, are you feeling better???
Sukoon to Allah ko yaad kerne se aata hai,if you could read something from quran majeed,or pray 2 raka't namaz or read hadith,i hope that would make you very peaceful inshaAllah.
share your pareshanis with Allah ta'lah.He is the best companion of all :)
keep yourself busy as irem suggested,sometimes exercise helps to divert your attention from that particular troubling thing.
May Allah helps you get rid of your depression and makes you happy Mehroo ji :)
Platinum gal, unfortunately im the same, im really not happy at all. The thing with me is that i miss back home so much to the extent that im seriously depressed most of the time. With me i think its mainly to do with the weather here. We hardly ever get any sunshine, to lift our spirits and then when we get the slightest hint of the sun we start remebering how nice it is back home, really hot, taking as many showers in the day, eating tundiyan cheezan. There are just so many things. Then there is the even bigger fact that i have no one here to call my own, other than my four family members, I mean i have loads of gora friends but there is a limit to there friendship, which makes me think of home again cuz over there i have so many family and friends all over the place that i hardly spend two nights in the same place or the same people.
i get so angry with my friends at uni cuz they just dont understand my way of life and thinking. They cant even accept the simple fact that i dont drink, or go out at night. Constantly asking why why why, no matter how much i explain to them that its a religious thing and not just that but i dont want to, but they refuse to accept.
I got two more years at uni, and i have no choice but to live with this depression, and then im getting the hell out of here.
I hope you didnt mind me having a small moan, just desperate to speak to someone who might understand even a little bit.
Platinum_ i hope whatever it is that is depressing you, goes away or you find a way of relief, or even if you like try talking about it to someone cuz believe me it helps alot.
Mehroo_ That is the worst, when you cant share your parishaani with anyone, but i pray your parishaani get sorted out and you start to cheer up and be happy.
irem_ I really admire the way you talk, just little things that make people stop and think yeah this girl is right. The advice you gave to platinum was good and i could do with listening to your advice myself. Irem i think your great
First of all, I like the way Irem talks too :k:. Pariyon ki Rani, I’m living abroad too and I completely understand your problems because I’m going through the same ones myself. In fact, for me, it’s a little worse because they not only ask me why things in my culture or religion are that way, they also let me know what they think of it (without my even asking), which, you’ve probably figured out, is not good. To them, my not mingling with men as much as they do is “ridiculous”. Mera drink na kerna, drugs na use kerna, aur bas ghalat herkutein na kerna mujhey, unki nazaroon mein, “an embarrassment to the human race” bana deyta hai. And these words that I’m quoting are things that people have actually said to me. Mein bohat achi terha samajhti hoon yeh sab handle kerna kis kuder mushkil hai. Aur jab key ooper sey aapko ghar ki yaad bhi aarahi ho. Aap to lucky hain…do saal mein wapas chuli jaeingi…mein to doctor ban rahi hoon…mujhey to aur hi idher stay kerna perday ga:(. Per kher, Allah malik hai, InshaAllah hum dono key liye jald sab theek ho jaey ga. Aur sunaeye Rani sahiba, aap aessa kiya kerain key bas inloogon ki baaton ko na suna kerain, mind na kiya kerain, dil pey na ley liya kerain. Yeh to hain hi aessay. Believe me, kuch countries key citizens samajhtay hain key unkey illawa duniya mein koi aur jaga, koi aur culture, koi aur religion, koi aur way of life hai hi nahi. Iss hi waja sey to yeh loog itnay ignorant ho jaatey hain aur hum ko samajhtay nahi hain. Ab aap bataein iss mein kis ka qasoor hai? Unhi ka. So don’t stress yourself over it, just think, only two more years…And Thanks for wishing me well Rani. InshaAllah everything will be alright soon for both of us. By the way, if you ever need to talk about anything, PM me if you’d like to.
mehroo api.
If i counted the times i’m depressed i’d be a gazillionaire now Life is tough, days are bleak, future unappealing and all things blue. But just hang in there - Allah miyah NEVER hurts us, never means to depress us, we just take time in understanding our own fate and comprehending why everything is the way it is. Well i do anyway hehe.
Keep yourself mega busy. Go out with your friends, take the kids to the park, get involved in some activites with your kids nursery?, talk to people, just keep yourself busy EVEN though you might not feel like you really want to.
Depression is bad, but worse is our weakness in combatting it
ohhhh DD sweetheart if you and I combine our tears, it would be enough to flood the world, if you and I combine our cries, the chant alone would be enough to shake the world, if the feeling you and I have is felt in every heart, it would be enough to start Judgment day SIGH
LIVE SUX DD
for you and I share these 
lol
LOL majoooooooooo moti 
And in this sharing..i give u..a couple of howls…
How do you cope with...
.. depression..
:(
I dont think its as simple as a thread on GS.
But an immediate start would be to try and do something
that makes you happy… and stay away from whatever depresses you..
For me.. surrounding myself with loved ones helps all the time..
Sometimes I wtach old home videos.
hope u feel better.