i couldnt really cook before mrriage, i know how to make roti, just dont know how to make it well...recently learnt how to make chawal, the second time i made it was for my parents when they returned from hajj, so that was nice :). i think its not that hard, you can either be a really good cook, or just an average one, im average deffo lol, but nothing wrong with being average if the food is edible! :)