Cooking fear

Would you give same mashwara to a guy who is asking "oh ... my wife to-be is making 80k yearly, I am wondering how can I get good job?" ...will you say to him ...well SHE is earning good...why do you worry? You dont have to worry at all...

will u say this?

NOOOOOOOOOOO ... he will be asked to get "stable" before getting married and so on..