CONTROLLING your spouse

Lifestyle Relationships
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Hi! :slight_smile: For those of u that are married. i need some tips. how do you control your spouse? what are some of the ways (direct ones and the not so obvious ones :wink: ) that you control your wifey/hubby? Thanks in advance.

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Why in the world would one want to Control him or her in this day and time? Can't it be equality?

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use hypnotism.

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shweets, the thing here is to have a partnership when you marry. I dont like critisism, I bristle and argue....but since I know my hubby and if he has a complaint, it calms my bristles a bit and even if I snap back at him, his complaint is completely registered and corrected - whether its some kind of compromise or just giving in because I see his point. I cant tell you how very important it is to see marriage as a partnership - and a lifetime one at that. If you see it that way and take it that way, all will be peachy :)

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its simple to control a guy.. we are so freaking easy to control.. i mean really really really easy.. all you need is to know how to COOOK awesomely delicious food.. phir dekho "dalda ka kamal"...:P

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captain and ansoon i am serious :( i know both of u are not married....how can u reply?
come on guys there must be some way u control each other? ? ? ok pm me if u dont wanna say it openly or if your hubby/wife frequents GS too. ;)

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Ansoo, :hehe:
I agree with Mamaof3, but then i am not married so shouldn’t be replying, sowwyy..

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Having a lot of dough always helps in controlling spouse.

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sighs! no rimsh go ahead....SOME (capt--n, Ans--n)people think i am joking :( :(

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^thanks girl, like i said i agree with Mamaof3, marriage is about partnership, love and understanding. when ppl start controlling each other, it ruins the marriage, and a bad marriage would make ur life unhappy, miserable and unbearable.

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ok well here goes another approach....the "boundary collar". Its really meant for dogs but well hubbies can be dogs u know? Its a collar they wear and your property is surrounded by tracking tags....when you leave (or TRY to leave) those boundaries, you get an electrical shock! Hee hee!! You can turn it "up" or "down" (good boy/bad boy) hee hee!!! A really BAD boy would need one of those electrical heart re-starters! I'm rotfl! !! sick mama, I guess i need to get out more

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:rotfl: :topic:

Dreams which came true.
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Treat him the way you want to be treated. I guarantee you he'll be all yours.

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Cook his favourite meals often, give him a back massage and smile alot :D

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:k:

This woman makes sense!

Dreams which came true.
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that’s your recipe to be a “blushing vision” :blush: ??

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they’ll only confide in those who are married..

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Don’t ever try to control them…tht’s how u control them.

Reverse psychology works, especially for men and children. :clown:

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Sex?

No? Prove me wrong then.
:blush:

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Only try to control where you think s/he is crossing religious boundary, discuss with him/her and show what proof you have. or are you talking about controlling what s/he wears (colors, fashion), who s/he meets/talks etc? or is it about "susral" control?

PS: This is my first reply in this thread, earlier it was Pakjangjoo