Have you discussed contraception with your fiancee/fiance? out of interest (and the interest in wedding nights from everyone) do most of you people decide beforehand about if you will be using birth control methods or after your married? the cultural difference between some of you must cause alot of issues in this area. Say the two of you are from a european country, i would assume it would be easier to talk about this stuff as its everywhere and people are so open about sex..but talking about it if say one is from a western country and the other is not, is that harder to do? because of the expectations and the issues around whether or not your sure about what you can and cannot discuss without sounding too ‘loose’.
And don’t say if you find it hard to discuss this stuff beforehand, how you gonna get down and do the deed..because you hear all sorts, don’t you? and then all them people who end up having a kid exactly 9months after the date of wedding.
Anyway, its would be quite interesting to hear people’s views on this.
My fiance and I have discussed it many times. I saw my doc recently and she suggested birth control pills that she will prescribe for me to take a few months before the wedding. There is nothing we don't talk about -- and no, it wasn't uncomfortable for us to talk about at all....!
am also afraid of having kids right after marriage,but i dont kno wat exactly shud b done to control it, i m too shy to discuss it wth ma Fianc'e although it will b a love marriage :(
