Yeah that is my parents main issue too. First they thought i was going bad so they pressurized me into getting married, knowing full well my mind was changing from one thing to the next because i was still finding myself. Then after marriage when **** got real and i tried for seperation i would get major guilt trips. They would tell me their insecurities
Over and over and that made me believe them as well. They are like maybe u fill find another guy most most likely you wont so why not stay with him? He’s respectful, kind and a good guy. Whats wrong with him? In 5 years from now he will turn out good for you. Etc etc etc. I like him too, its just this whole conservative bull and the fact that i am not ready for this. For awhile i give into what my parents say and i think it might end up working out but then i hit a stage where i am like i dont think its going to happen!!