conservative hubby

[Paheli00]

Re: conservative hubby

@sammi4ever

Are there any of you out there who have a conservative hubby? How do you deal with it? Not only that but how do u deal with a semi religious/religious hubby when you are non practising? For example i dont eat halal, i dont care if i wear tank tops outside, i dont mind
Friends or hanging out with guys, i love tattoos, but my husband doesnt. I feel as if tht impacts me as an individual. Like why cant you accept me? So how do i work this out?

1. Your situation is very unique. Most girls who are like you (i.e.. not willing to adopt halal only food, prefers to wear tank tops outside, has tattoos etc.) aren’t…naive…enough to think they can live happily with a practicing Muslim. I assure you majority of the people reading this can’t relate to differences like this.

2. Your husband is not going to give up his religious beliefs. It was stupid for him not to share his expectations with your before marriage. But what’s done is done.

3. Its clear that you have no desire to give up your lifestyle.

Your husband is not willing to compromise. You are not willing to compromise. Thus, this can’t be worked out. So at this point, YOU need to ask yourself why are you in this marriage still? Why don’t you get a divorce and find a guy who respects your beliefs and does not try to change you? You obviously don’t feel respected in this marriage. So why are you still married? Are you really planning on having children with this guy? If so, have you even began to think about how many fights there will be after there is a child in the picture…especially if that child is a girl?