Exactly. Hours and hours everyday is a bit excessive (tho me and my other half were like that in the beginning, it’s now about an hour or so a day and txts here and there, he’s the sort of person tho who gets annoyed if he rings me and I just text him back lol), once every 10 days is the other extreme..
No-one is so busy they can’t even text once a day just to say ‘hi, hope ur ok’ or whatever. Honestly, if my other half said he only wanted to talk to me once every 10 days I’d think he’s not interested, I’m sure he speaks to his friends on the phone more often than that..