Once every 10 days? Erm yeah i understand he has a job now. But why cant you both talk 1-2 hours everynight? I dont get that. Once evry 10 days are you sure hes faithful?!
Exactly. Hours and hours everyday is a bit excessive (tho me and my other half were like that in the beginning, it's now about an hour or so a day and txts here and there, he's the sort of person tho who gets annoyed if he rings me and I just text him back lol), once every 10 days is the other extreme..
No-one is so busy they can't even text once a day just to say 'hi, hope ur ok' or whatever. Honestly, if my other half said he only wanted to talk to me once every 10 days I'd think he's not interested, I'm sure he speaks to his friends on the phone more often than that..
either they were talking all night long and now once in 10 days...comon keep some balance. If I was the girl I would scream too, I would also think that he is no more interested in me. Why didn't he think of losing the chram past 4 yrs?
No, there's no charm in marriage. I'd actually recommend that you two communicate with each other before you get married. Communicate with her or you WILL lose her interest. She will get frustrated and stop sharing anything with you. If this is more than infatuation, it will last.
P.S. I am assuming this "friend" of yours doesn't exist. :D
Exactly. Hours and hours everyday is a bit excessive (tho me and my other half were like that in the beginning, it's now about an hour or so a day and txts here and there, he's the sort of person tho who gets annoyed if he rings me and I just text him back lol), once every 10 days is the other extreme..
No-one is so busy they can't even text once a day just to say 'hi, hope ur ok' or whatever. Honestly, if my other half said he only wanted to talk to me once every 10 days I'd think he's not interested, I'm sure he speaks to his friends on the phone more often than that..
Same here, its always like that when you first get with someone. I loved it, But too a extent, We *both *realised it was getting a bit much and we have other lives too than just talking. Now we speak everynight without fail for half an hour or so. Depends if we both have work/uni the next day. And we'll text, And meet up now n again. I mean every 10 days is pathetic i would of said alright cool and not even answerd on the 10th day. Its stupid.
thanx alot everyone...I made my friend read all ur advices...even I think the guy is loosing interest...
I'm glad your *friend *realises this after 4 years. Ugh........