My husband’s cousin got married in Germany, had a daughter from her then divorced his wife. His daughter now come weekly to meet his father, she is 10yr old.
In Pakistan also he is married and have 4 daughters. this week when her daughter came to meet him he kidnapped her daughter and reached PAkistan this morning.
My husband was telling me she is very cute girl very innocent and she was crying silently.
I am feeling very bad for the little girl how is she going to manage here. His father took him to mandi bahauddin there are no good schools and is her second mother going to treat her like her own child well i doubt that.
I am planning to contact her mother if not then i should complain to german embassy.
Pls guide me what shall i doas his father said that he does not want her daughter to live non religious life.
i wont be able to get her address but i might get her name, i will be only able to provide the embassy mother’s name and daughter’s name, is this enuff info*
i think it would be more helpful to them if you can let them know where the girl has been taken…an address?
also give them as many names as you can..mother, daughter, the father.
How dare he feel that he can take a child away from her mother, i maybe assuming this but i take that he is staying in Germany himself? you mention that the girl used to visit him every week? if thats the case will he leave her alone in Pakistan?
Try to give them city/area he have taken the girl from, i am sure her mother have already filed a police case by now and would be looking for her daughter… so by giving them the closest area you would be able to help them to locate the nearest police station and find the missing links…
Moreover, inform Local FIA office and SSP of the city saying that the guy seem to have kidnapped/snatched his daughter... they will take good care of him because the guy have to produce papers saying te court in Germany have granted him the custody of the child...
if i will do that my husband and my inlaws will get to know and my inlaws will create an awkward situation for me for sure...that is why i want to do it secretly...i think best thing will be to inform german embassy*
i am feeling too for the girl and couldn't stop my tears when my hubby told me this, his cell phone is still switched off as soon i gather info i will raise an email to German Embassy InshAllah...
OP:
Not sure how sophisticated the German Embassy's system is over there but a phone call would be a better idea as opposed to an e-mail. E-mail has a much higher chance of being traced.
I agree with majority of the advice you've been given. Snatching a 10 year old girl from her mother is beyond sickening. The girl is old enough to understand what happened and will not forget her mother. Moreover...there is a major possibilty that she will be treated like a "outsider" by her step-mother/half-sisters...neighbors etc...especially since she's half-German.
Your husband and the rest of family are cowards for allowing this to happen. God forbid if something like this ever happend to my child....I would hope another adult has the courage to help my family.
My husband's cousin got married in Germany, had a daughter from her then divorced his wife. His daughter now come weekly to meet his father, she is 10yr old.
In Pakistan also he is married and have 4 daughters. this week when her daughter came to meet him he kidnapped her daughter and reached PAkistan this morning.
My husband was telling me she is very cute girl very innocent and she was crying silently.
I am feeling very bad for the little girl how is she going to manage here. His father took him to mandi bahauddin there are no good schools and is her second mother going to treat her like her own child well i doubt that.
I am planning to contact her mother if not then i should complain to german embassy.
Pls guide me what shall i doas his father said that he does not want her daughter to live non religious life.
I would highly appreciate input from you guys.
Thanks in advance.
Belle
If he is the father and he has divorced his wife then how it is a 'kidnap'?
You say it is 'kidnap' but what proof you have for your position?
