you what..... he expects me to take care of him like a child.... as he is the youngest one .. and spoiled as well... so he expects the same from me .. even though i do alot stilll....... jab main gher aya tum ne paani ka nai poocha?? meri woh wali shirt abhi tak press nai hoi? main ne phone kiya to tha ... khana table per kion nai???? :( no metter how hard i try... something goes wrong. what ever i do is never good enough... it makes me feel as if i am even unable to take care of my home my family..... :(
Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat???!!! Excuse me! He is not a child so why should he be treated like one?! Dont you already HAVE children at home? You arent sitting around all day, this is really not fair to you and Im sorry to hear about it.
Khana table pe isliye nahin hai kyun aap unki naukrani nahin hein! Shirt press isliye nahin huwi kyun ke apka dil nahin chaha!
Listen hun, if you do these things because you LOVE your husband and want to go an extra mile because you appreciate him, its a different story. When a man expects his wife to wait on him hand and foot, I dont agree with it. No way.
My sister is married with a kid and her husband irons his own shirt in the morning. She makes him a quick breakfast, lunch and sets him off for the day. When he comes home, they have dinner and he takes care of the baby for the remainder of the day. Its THEIR life, not just his or hers. Its their child, not just hers.
You've got to get out there and make him understand he is not a bachelor anymore. If he has friends and interests, so do you. Have fun, enjoy yourself, develop your own life, etc. Men like a woman who has a plan for herself and doesnt depend on a man for everything. Confidence, self-esteem, goals, happiness, etc are very attractive traits. :)