Re: confused...
PCG, puhleeze. You are an intelligent woman, I am not saying go lock yourself at home and put on a spacesuit when the male plumber comes to fix your clogged toilet so he doesn't see a scant millimeter for you. Go talk to guys if you wanna, I'm not your god, people here are not your gods, why justify things to people here. I couldn't care less.
Ps. I meant khullay aam. Please consult your urdu dictionary.