Recently i met my fiancée for second time when i met him i saw other girls contact names numbers in his mobile phone …i was so shocked and upset even when i was talking to him i saw his mobile was on silent mode n some girl was calling him when i asked him he said these all are wrong numbers i just save their numbers along with their names so i wont pick it up what the hell is that suppose to mean ?even i ask him gave me ur mobile i want to see ur inbox n contact list he start deleting the contact numbers ? is he cheating on me ? how can i know if hes cheating on me or loyal with me he swear by Allah n quran that hes faithful with me but still i m confuse now i dunno what to do ? please help
Re: confused @scared :(
I'm sorry. Unless you have a birthday coming up and he is planning a surprise party, he is cheating on you.
If he was faithful, he would be glad to just give you the phone to assuage your worries. Maybe he thinks that as long he is your fiance, and technically not yet married, he is free to cheat. Well that is insane.
Of course I might be wrong, but it is very likely he is cheating.
"he swear by Allah n quran that hes faithful with me"
If he is willing to cheat, this might not mean all that much to him. Sorry again.
You need to know for sure however. I suggest you somehow get a hold of the phone without him knowing and call up these numbers yourself. Does he have a Facebook? You might see suspect interactions there.
Don't worry. You will get through this and it will be better.
Re: confused @scared :(
No point in jumping to conclusions. This is the second time you've met him right? How well do you know him?
Re: confused @scared :(
just 3 months ago ...its kinda arranged .....every time i start asking him for his mobile he wont gave me but later he deleted all the contacts in front of me n show me his inbox but still now i m scared maybe hes cheating on me
Re: confused @scared :(
I'm sorry deepsentiments, this might be very hard to hear, but he is cheating. There's no other explanation for his actions aside from maybe planning a surprise party for you. I'm sure you know how likely that is.
Are you in the position to tell your parents your feelings?
Re: confused @scared :(
Ok, did you know much about him or find out much about him and his family before your baath pakhi/engagement?
Re: confused @scared :(
Suspicion and paranoia is no way to start out any relationship...let alone a marital one. You need to relax. Don't jump to conclussions until you find solid proof to do so. And if/when you do find proof, then go to your elders first before you go all postal on him
Re: confused @scared :(
Oh boy. I get the feeling it's just gonna be downhill from here.
Re: confused @scared :(
What the hell else can be an explanation for his action?
Re: confused @scared :(
This is the perfect time to take action. No permanent decisions have been made.
Re: confused @scared :(
No permanent decisions have been made.
Relax. Marriage doesn't have to be permanent either. :)
Re: confused @scared :(
use call blocking service. :@:
Re: confused @scared 
do istekhara. 
Re: confused @scared :(
^wrong smilie. don't dismiss the lofty prayer with the chai face. Get it right, will ya?
Re: confused @scared :(
Hes my father friend's son my father know his dad like since 30 years now n my dad know the guy since 7 years my father was the one who told me that he liked him alot n hes the best for me i should marry him....my mother in law is very nice n supportive i remember once she told me that my son will never cheat on you that's my guarantee u can trust me ...i trust my parents blindly i know if they will choose a guy for me he will be good for me ....my fiancee is very caring n loving he is also supportive in every way ...i have his facebook password too ....i never saw anything like this but just this mobile stuff has made me to re think again ....i can tell to my father too but the thing is i wont want to involve the families now unless hes cheating on me this way i will loose my dignity infront of my family ....i have dicuss this with my faincee he told me that hes not cheating on me he swear by his mom n told me if i want he will change his mobile number n i can keep his number ...but still i duuno i have seen alot of ppl cheating on thier partners cant trust anyone these days ...even i got enaged to him couz my dad said hes nice guy i know him very well u will be happy with him .....
Re: confused @scared :(
This is the perfect time to take action. No permanent decisions have been made.
are u in relationship ? its not easy to break with someone esp when ur families has so many hopes and u r getting married in few months hes not my boyfriend hes my finance'
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i remember once she told me that my son will never cheat on you that's my guarantee u can trust me ... .....
LMAO. Okay, does anyone else find this remotely funny? NO? Just me? I can picture MIL telling you that her son will take care of you, maybe share his likes and dislikes with you, maybe impart marital wisdom (that should go in one ear and out the other, of course). But how many MILs tell you that their son won't ever cheat on you? That's like sooooo specific a thing to say. Too weird. Besides, that's exactly what someone who shouldn't be trusted would say. True story.
Re: confused @scared :(
Hes my father friend's son my father know his dad like since 30 years now n my dad know the guy since 7 years my father was the one who told me that he liked him alot n hes the best for me i should marry him....my mother in law is very nice n supportive i remember once she told me that my son will never cheat on you that's my guarantee u can trust me ...i trust my parents blindly i know if they will choose a guy for me he will be good for me ....my fiancee is very caring n loving he is also supportive in every way ...i have his facebook password too ....i never saw anything like this but just this mobile stuff has made me to re think again ....i can tell to my father too but the thing is i wont want to involve the families now unless hes cheating on me this way i will loose my dignity infront of my family ....i have dicuss this with my faincee he told me that hes not cheating on me he swear by his mom n told me if i want he will change his mobile number n i can keep his number ...but still i duuno i have seen alot of ppl cheating on thier partners cant trust anyone these days ...even i got enaged to him couz my dad said hes nice guy i know him very well u will be happy with him .....
I dont see any problem. Let him change his SIM.