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I wish I knew. Insecurity? God knows! And then they have the nerve to say women are complicated 
Cos he is only 'seemingly' mature sp.
We should all declare celibacy and save ourselves the hassle of dealing with such jerks!
A related question...how much time does it take before you should ask something serious like that? 6months, 12 months, 2 years? When is it ever long enough? Why is 6 months enough? Why not seven or five? Why do I even care??? Bleahhhhhh.
are u still wondering about that loser?
hey..be careful and dont get involved until u know the person a little bit more.
if you are gonna rush into something, then you should not be shocked if the guy turns out to be a prick.
u can either do some due diligence before getting involved
or
u can do a post-mortem root cause analysis afterwards
choice is yours
Be happy that you found out what kind of a "man" he is now rather than 6 months from now when you invested more of your time, energy and emotions into him. Someone who can threaten you over something you ask .... gosh, I don't even know what to say to that. People are messed up.
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See I am not sure if the men are confused. They are dating someone in her late 20's/early 30's. So the pickings are slim...they need to wait a little longer and do their DD a little more before venturing into a long term acquisition.
Vaisey, Two months seems like a short amount of time. Whether you are 22 or 32. If you are expecting someone to propose after 2 months make sure you get a receipt.
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See sweetpie, this whole fate thing is a bit much. Not meant to be is said by people who take no for an answer. Don't ever think that way. Now buck up and go get another. am sure with your qualifications now, there are many out there.
Just a quick word here... two months is too quick to ask, "where is this headed". You won't even know where this is headed after 9 months. remember, Infatuation, attraction, liking, comfort, liking, attraction, Infatuation....it is a cycle that needed.
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whay do certain people keep running into bad relationships/prospects/people.
do they have the priorities mixed up on the qualities of the person who they want to pursue?
or do they just have bad judgement
or is it just badluck..that just wont give up
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I think it depends on
where you look
and
what you are looking for
…what your definition of “decent” is.. and whether when one looks at potential mates they look for the decency qualities first or the car, the clothes and the job first.
what else would explain some people continuously running into the same type of situation again and again.
is there no personal responsibility here, or just saying that desi men suck etc etc is enough.
Why is it that there are pretty kewl desi women here who are on the east coast who seem to be happily married to pretty kewl guys?
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Fayz....and hypothetically if he IS trying to get into your pants...then?
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sweetpie, this may sound a little harsh, but I think you look at wrong places :) . I know plenty of decent desi guys, so its not like they dont exist. Maybe its just that either you get stuck with the non-cool kind or you dont look in the right places. And the reason i say this is, becuz I remember earlier posts by you on a similiar topic :)
Are you sure you are looking for guys who wanna settle down and get married or guys who just wanna play around and have fun?
Cz if its the latter, chances are they will react funny when you even give them a hint that you are getting serious about the relationship. They will run. I know a few such people and they have no intention of settling down despite what BS they will feed to their potential 'targets'. You can typically spot them from a mile. Shouldn't take 2 months to figure them out.