If after all what has already been shown by him she needs to have him say this…
then she needs her head examined.
Besides, something are better left unsaid. Keeps the dignity and respect of the person.
I think if this is all true then, the guy is being nice and gentle. Not a jerk or wuss.
Couple of more thoughts:
The very fact that some guys do not act rude and throw the women out of their lives bluntly saying something bad either makes the woman feel unnecessarily hopeful (if they are clingy by nature-chipkoo in Urdu).
Or this niceness may work like a doube edged sword that it is taken as a nice gesture by the woman and she instead of being repulsed, wants him more! Some of the women may have been badly treated, used or played with.
And here is this guy who is trying to play by rule. Ends up being called a wuss!
Here he has shown many signs clearly that he is not interested. Plain and simple.
In order to keep her respect, she should just leave him. Period.’
Its not like she invested a whole lot in to it. No sex, no child, no common property etc.
Like I said, he may or may not come back. She should leave that up to him.
I still say it is a wishy washy story but good enough for discussion.