No I was not kidding ya!
I do not think you read all ‘her’ posts.
They are not in to intimate relation. He is not in because of free ride or sex.
Does he ask her to pay his bills you think?
He has shown her disinterest.
He want to have some time.
He has broken contacts.
He has said he does not want to go further.
He has been avoiding to meet her parent (s).
What more does she want? She wants him to hold her with her arm and show the exit door to make her understand? 
And you are calling him wuss for being polite???
All I see here is OP could be trolling to bash Pakistani men. ‘She’ could not even be a gori/or British. True or false?