Re: confrontation of lies
Sidz just be straight with ur rishte daar and do as fraudia said, paani sar se oppper hai.and about grand parents thats what we did
If ur dad love his parents he can go in their house and meet them.But ur daada daadi don't need to come to ur house and ur mom don't need to meet them.
THat happened with my chahca he had a big fight with ammi and my eldest sis. she told him that i don't wanna meet u anymore .SInce my chachi is her nand too so my behnoii is meeting her sister but she is not.SOmetimes u have to make a stand.Just don't meet them and don't go to their house. if they blame u for something then shut them up with the things u know about them.I think so u need to do this one time and they will be shut forever.
Be brave and shut their big mouths.
Let me tell u one thing even if i am married but i have a right of way to speak and u know i don't meet my phoopi much and neither my mom but my dad go to their house every day ,its fine with us he cannot leave them so just go their and meet them but don't force us to do that.SO u should ask ur mom politely if dad wants to meet his parents he can go their house and we will not.
Take a stand and since u are elder ur say will be heard.