Compromises..

[Amoureux_de_la_vie]

Re: Compromises..

@Deeba1234

So which of the following would you find acceptable and be willing to compromise on for a rishta:

1. Not being allowed to work after marriage..

2. Being told you must live in your inlaws house permanently (and there are other siblings living there as well, he’s not an only son)..

3. No to you wearing western clothes no matter how modest they might be..

4. Being expected to give up your education after marriage as there’s ‘no point’..

5. Being told that if you live with inlaws you’ll be expected to more or less ‘take over’ the bulk of the housework, cooking etc from his mum..

6. Being told that if you live with inlaws you’ll be expected to ask his parents’ permission if you want to visit your family..

IF I HAD to, I would go with 5. Firstly, because there’s an “if” with living with the in-laws :D, and secondly, that just means I get more control. I am willing to take more responsibility, if I get the power asssociated with it too, i.e. it happens on my schedule and people may need to defrost the food to be able to eat. I can always hire cleaning ladies too.