Re: Compromises..
A compromise to me would be: neither your way nor my way, but somewhere in the middle. Each of you make concessions for the other.
In the list provided, it seems like it’s all his way and the wife has no right to personal will and independent or even joint decision-making in the relationship - he commands and she obeys. So, yes please explain what she’s getting in the relationship other than possibly a good standard of living?