again, look who is calling for a vote for others - a country which is frequently taken over by the army and itself hasnt learnt how to vote.
so out of touch with reality, and combined with the jazbaati nature of your approach. hardly practical.
On the first point, it is not the Pakistani state that is the basis for a plebscite, but rather the norms of partition time British India. So Pakistan may not have learned how to vote, but that is not relevant to the expression of the desires of the Kashmiri people. Besides any practical voting would be administrated by the UN or similar body.
On the second point, sure it might be jazbati but its also grounded in the unfinished business of history. In order for true Pakistan-India dialogue to move forward, the Kashmir issue must be resolved.