Re: Compliments from strangers.
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CRIME MASTER GO GO
your userID itself is so shamefully provocative. Go GO as in a go go bar dancer? - is that what you are a CRIME MASTER IN?
LOL
Well said. I don't know why I didn't think about it that way. May be because at times we are not expecting something and when somebody suddenly say something bad, it hurts very much. Thanks for the kind advice. I would inshaAllah share it with people related to me that they should be mentally prepared for such misbehavior and should move on by ignoring it without taking it seriously.
JazakAllah khair for your sincere help in this matter. May Allah (swt) bless you and your family with all the blessings of this life and hereafter
Thank you! Same to you.
People who were giving lectures of good etiquette to Reality Check in my other thread, I am amazed how these comments went unnoticed ?! I am not in favor of or against anyone. I believe in forgiving and forgetting. Such comments must not be given importance, but I WONT tolerate one person being bashed for bad manners in my one thread but other being totally ignored at the same time in my other thread.
That isn’t justice, is it ?
Wow Zabardast. Masha Allah.
Thanks kinzy for sharing. I love you.
For this picture I give you AWARD OF THE BEST POSTER + Best Picture Award.
Is say ziada bahtar tareeqay say jawab naheen dia jaa sakta. Masha Allah.
Re: Compliments from strangers.
candy and meat analogies always seem to apply only to women. how odd..
My sister and my mother went to a shop to buy few things. The shopkeeper asked my sister her relation with my mother. She said, "She is my mother". Despite the fact that my mother had covered her head and face, he replied," She looks so young, and I thought she is your sister." Let us not discuss here my mother's response, the shopkeeper sure won't commit this mistake in future, inshaAllah.
And I do realize why he said it, because a lot of women do like to be called young when above 40, and such compliments do work for those shopkeepers in few cases to be able to make good customers.
In general, it is amazing that a Muslim woman at times don't mind compliments of her beauty online or in practical life coming from a MALE STRANGER !? Isn't she suppose to give this right to only her Husband ? Same goes for Muslim men. Compliments of their good looks coming from a na-mehram woman seems very odd.
Main agar aap ki mom ki jagah hoti to sunati sahi say aur jootay laganay say bhi guraiz naheen karti. lol
Kisi ko huq naheen kay kisi na mahram especially Hijaabi ko compliment day. Aurat ya larki kisi aurat ya larki ko chaltay phirtay bhi day to koi farq naheen parta achchi baat hai.
Laikin agar koi na mahram kisi ko compliment deta/deti hai to yay intehai ghair ikhlaaqi fail hai. Aisy insaan bohat ghatia hotay hain. Achchay koi bhi kisi ko bhi kisi wajah say bhi lug saktay hain laikin her koi compliemnt naheen deta khuwah wo larki ko larki ki hi taraf say dena ho ya larkay/larki ko larki/larka ki taraf say.
Koi na mahram compliment day is ka mutlub hai wo intehai bayghairat aur chichora hai. Agar aisay chichoron ki pehli baar main hi marammat ho jaay to ainda kisi kay saath aisa karnay ki himmat na ho.
Who ask compliements from chichorays only the the chichories. Chichoraays think all ladies are chichori so they deal same way to all. So they need sabaq. You know laton kay bhoot baton say naheen mantay.
Aik larki niqaab kioon pehnti hai inhi sub baton say khud ko bachaanay kay liaay aur is kay bawajood aap us ko complement day rahay hain to is say ziada baygharat kon ho ga jo nangi aurton wala tareeqa kaar aik pardaydaar aurat kay saath kar raha hai.
That PARDA, NIQAAB OR HIJAB give the message to all that I don't want your attention NO? if no attenetion means no comliments nothing at all. Why you deal the same way you deal with nungi pungi ladies.
Not a single na mahram can comliment a na mahram lady without a bad intention. Who ever said that is either a bayghairat type person or live in a fools paradise.
Last year I was in Pakistan visiting with my sister. My sister was with her daughter. My sister also don't look that old to look like her daughters mother. She also wear hijaab.
We both entered a shop at different time and went different ways as we were in hurry and looking for something in a bookstore. So he didn't know she is my sister.
We had pizza box with us. Whe she put that box on his counter he was looking into the box. We had two pizza boxes. He was asking are you celebrating salgira. Do you have mobile number. Give me your mobile number. She said no I don't have mobile. She had her mobile with her but she said no. Then he was insisting ok take my number. My sister asked why would I take your number. He said you looks like my one friend and she is gone so I want to talk to you. My sister ignored him. She said I don't want to take your number.
He was looking into the box again and again. My sister asked if you want some you can have a piece or a box.
Meri bahan to aisi hai kay itna kuch sunnay say pehlay to wo uski achchi tarha pitai laga chuki hoti laikin us nain sabar say kaam liaa. Pata hai kioon. He was a langra also not a good looking.
How he thought that my sister would talk to him when she was in hijaab he didn't know her warna to uski durgat ho jaati. lol Buch gia bechara pitnay say langra honay ki wajah say.
Was his intention good. Does that make my sister his customer. lol Hell NO. That way he could only make her his beating to death. Never go to that shop again in her life.
He was also asking where do you live? Do you live close? In which builging?
Was his intention good? What was his intention? May be for chichorapun or Daka.
There are many good ladies with or without HIJAAB who don't like any attention or compliment from any na maharam. Except a few who looks for those things and behave like that or dress or make up like that.
Why would I say thank you to a stranger na mahram for his compliment. I would just ignore him or daant him.
Yes ppl in here and in Pakistan and in other countries say and do things to passing by girls and even womens. We can't stop them but we have to take right step to avoid and to stop them. Only ghatia tareen chichoraays give compliments to na mahram.
The fools who says living in cave. For them if you are not allowed to look at them then how are you allowed to compliment na mahram? Without looking how could you give compliment.
candy and meat analogies always seem to apply only to women. how odd..
Same as Dung and Bettle queer.
What is go go bar dancer?
I never heard of that in my life. Is it true whatever you said?
Re: Compliments from strangers.
gr8heera pai, i didnt understand your sisters hijab and pizza and langra mobile story.
My one relative get compliments from strangers too. Now don’t ask me about my that relative. lol
That compliment was the door to Bedroom. I didn’t liked using your those word. Some ppl are so very different Some becomes happy when get compliment from na maharam aka chichiries and some realy good ladies get mad when some strangers na maharam compliments. They are so totally different.
Yeah how could a person compliemnt even without looking ate the face and hair. Doesn’t is says he is the biggest lair and fraudia. AND THAT shows his CHARACTER and INTENTION. For sensible person. And these day only sensible persons are .0000001%. Including Zobia and Master Mind and Sizz and me Heera the gr8.
How many were before him? Just asking don’t want infraction for this.
So you married a stranger? My sister wouldn’t marry a stranger.
It means that was your faisla means LOve Marriage. Wow.
My sisters married without looking at the groom before marriage. She got comliments from his husband.
So without that she wouldn’t go to buy anything if she needed to buy. Sara begum it depends on what kind of person you are. If you don’t mind compliments from strangers its you. Good ladies won’t like a single compliments from any stranger. Wouldn’t ever got to that shop in her life.
LOL
Don’t forget he was the bechara last one.
Yeah by slapping stranger na mahram in the face and complimenting and showing love to husband. Very simple.
100% ageree. Agar her chichoray ko pehli baar main achchi tarha dhulaai ho jaay to doosri baar uski himmat na ho kisi ko bhi kuch kehnay ka.
The answer of your FIRST THING is yes we are not living in 14th century that is why there are more chichoraays.
The answer for your SECOND THING is Which muslim women are you talking about ladies from your home who never mind having online and offline compliments. For them you might be right. But you know what the reality is Most mulim girls and ladies don’t like compliments from a chichora no matter online or off line.
Yes Some muslim or any ladies love to have compliments from na mahrams and those are not true muslims those are only CHICHORIES. Come online and off line only for attention.
You will see those everywhere they use their voice, pictures of eyes and face to get attention. LOL is kay bawajood kahain gi kay wo hijaabi hain aur bohat naik parhaizgaar hain. Laikin wo kitni hijaabi aur kitni naik parhaizgaar hain uska undaza unki profile, blog ya avatar say achchi tarha pata chal jaay ga. Kay deeday phar phar kar apni ankhon ki tasveer lagaeen hon gi.
Aksar nain to wedding walay section main Jism neem uriaan yani tight kapron main picture lagai hoti hai aur shakal ko chupa dia hota hai. Dupatta to jism pay hota hai par jis dhaknay ka naheen show piece ka kaam kar raha hota hai.
Agar Allah nain khoobsoorat ankhain day deen hain to is ka matlub yay naheen kay us ka ishtahar lagay jaay. Ya shakal ka ya jism ka.
Kisi aik moti bhuddi aur badshakal nain apni shadi ya kisi cheez ki picture post ki hai naheen?
PPl are different Hijaab send a straight forward message to everyone and bikini wearing lady send different message to everyone they have to deal with them differently not the same way.
That tells about you. Why and in what sense you found this thread funny.
To me you sound funny for this thread. It’s a issue and she wanted to share and have opnion how all ladies and gents feel about it.
AGar aap hijaab aur uski ammi ki tarha hoteen to aap samajh paati. Naheen hain is liaay naheen samaajh paa raheen hain.
Exactly!!! You go girl beat the crap out of him. I’ll be there with you to add extra flovour of jootay in his face and dirty head.
gr8heera pai, i didnt understand your sisters hijab and pizza and langra mobile story.
That's OK her aik ki samaajh aik jaisi naheen hoti.
What is the meaning of Dung Beetle and why you used it in your name?
Re: Compliments from strangers.
Getting complimented from COMPLETE strangers is simply very awkward sometimes, especially if done so by the opposite gender.
I'd say its polite to just "not compliment" even if the other person is drop dead gorgeous, weather a muhajjiba or not, male or female. There is really no need.
People who were giving lectures of good etiquette to Reality Check in my other thread, I am amazed how these comments went unnoticed ?! I am not in favor of or against anyone. I believe in forgiving and forgetting. Such comments must not be given importance, but I WONT tolerate one person being bashed for bad manners in my one thread but other being totally ignored at the same time in my other thread.
That isn't justice, is it ?
hey that was ANOTHER day... this is a new day... forget all I said :)
Re: Compliments from strangers.
I apologize. I didn't mean to make anyone feel bad. I do understand that you didn't mean it when you said that. You didn't say anything bad, on my bad days I speak in worst manner. May Allah (swt) forgive me for pointing at anyone..
hey that was ANOTHER day... this is a new day... forget all I said :)
I apologize. I didn't mean to make anyone feel bad. I do understand that you didn't mean it when you said that. You didn't say anything bad, on my bad days I speak in worst manner. May Allah (swt) forgive me for pointing at anyone..
And they lived happily ever after.
Re: Compliments from strangers.
Gogo - Dude, in my very honest assessment you have a very constipated confused self-righteous finger-pointing mind. Only a twisted mind would doubt everybody's every action and intention. You seriously need to lighten up. My friendly advice.
Gr8Hero - same goes for you.
Re: Compliments from strangers.
Gr8 Heera U dont have to replyt o every single post in this thread.
How many were before him? Just asking don't want infraction for this.
So you married a stranger? My sister wouldn't marry a stranger.
It means that was your faisla means LOve Marriage. Wow.
My sisters married without looking at the groom before marriage. She got comliments from his husband.
exactly what are you trying to say here? Is it really any of your business? there may have been 0, 1, 5, how is it any of your concerN?
Dont worry about who i married or didnt marry
If so then what?
Good for you. we don't care about you or your sisters or your thousands of relatives.
Gogo - Dude, in my very honest assessment you have a very constipated confused self-righteous finger-pointing mind. Only a twisted mind would doubt everybody's every action and intention. You seriously need to lighten up. My friendly advice.
Thanks for the sincere advice. May Allah (swt) forgive my mistakes and guide me towards the right path. Please pray for me that Allah (swt) may make me as good as you.