In case the intention behind this thread is misunderstood, let us consider the following example:
One of my mother's friend used to be a very kind and polite person. She even treated sweepers, shopkeepers, gate keepers, gardeners, drivers...etc. very kindly and used to respond to their greetings with a smile and warm reply of greetings.
One day she called my mother, she was horrified and crying on phone. When my mom reached her home she was trembling with fear. Mom asked her the reason. She said, " The worker who used to come here for painting our house, I used to reply to his greetings with a smile and answered his questions as I didn't want to be impolite to him. Today he came to my house clean shaved, wearing suit and tie, intense smell of perfume was spread in the whole house, he was smiling at me with flowers in his hand, as he said," Kia haal hai" (No use of baji this time) In spite of knowing she was married, he came at the time when she was all alone at home. He didn't try this at any of the other houses because like my mom most of them used to avoid him and other workers to the extent possible.
From that day onwards, she tried to not use her "beautiful smile" and "soft voice" in wrong places, because in Pakistan it might be considered as an invitation for an affair by common illiterate people.
umm had she JUST moved to Pakistan?