Re: Complicated situation
Sure, after a confirmation it’s fine. But before that it’s a bit much, imo.
The poetry is not an absolute must, Fitoor. Unless one uses their own words, most likely the poem won’t be original. In my eyes, a letter expressed using your own words is better than a poem…and it would make for a great keepsake…but even that isn’t necessary. Right now, Op is at an uncertain stage and it’s best not to come on too strong, imo.