**wht was the 1st tht tht clicked u or som kinda crush tht when u feel lik i would be really happy if i got maried to ths1 or wht makes u feeel lik u r compatible to ur spouse before married …is there any thing tht mak u feel guilty tht u hav done a big blunder after getting married to ths paritcular 1 
do u silently cursed inside
Jst share ur experience tht will helpful for the new1 
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im not married...but i think u just know u want to marry this person and they are right for u! its sounds so cliche but i think its so true u just know deep down that no matter where u are as long as u are with that person u are fine...hehe
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no exshperiensh :( though m mature... blv me
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im not married...but i think u just know u want to marry this person and they are right for u! its sounds so cliche but i think its so true u just know deep down that no matter where u are as long as u are with that person u are fine...hehe
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seriously ...jst list down particular points where som1 need to wrk n observe others n mak decision :)
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no exshperiensh :( though m mature... blv me
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r u sure ... wht mak u feel lik u r mature nw :)
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i dont like to expose maself, i believe in people exploring me themselves
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k kinda hard to understand what exactly you are asking. Anyway, for what I gather - You are basically asking that When you fall in love and feel that you have find your soul mate - Is there a moment when you regret getting married?
In other words, can that original feeling be wrong?
Answer: Yes that feeling can be wrong. It all depends on you. Once you fallen in love, you automatically have certain ideas / expectations of the other person. It depends on you, how high of your expections are ... and how much are they achieved.
Also on the fact how the personalities are (not how they were perceived at the time of falling in love).
Also, the love fades away (generally), quite quickly. There has to be other reasons / emotions / respect that needs to take it place.
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Prince MS luv ur responses
very well said!
Since I don’t get what the heck you’re trying to say, I guess it proves I am not mature enough for this thread. How sad.
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If you are asking about you situation , dude you in deep shyt
Usually people "fall" for mutual understanding and great communication.. when that isn't there.. the relationship becomes shaky. Another reason is monotony.. the same things, words etc.
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^^^^^^^^^^ nt for u alll tc n hav fun ...n dont dont com again in ths thread :)
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k kinda hard to understand what exactly you are asking. Anyway, for what I gather - You are basically asking that When you fall in love and feel that you have find your soul mate - Is there a moment when you regret getting married?
In other words, can that original feeling be wrong?
Answer: Yes that feeling can be wrong. It all depends on you. Once you fallen in love, you automatically have certain ideas / expectations of the other person. It depends on you, how high of your expections are ... and how much are they achieved.
Also on the fact how the personalities are (not how they were perceived at the time of falling in love).
Also, the love fades away (generally), quite quickly. There has to be other reasons / emotions / respect that needs to take it place
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thank u soo much :)
wil tell u in detail @ som other time ...ok
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obviously im not mature enough. coz i didnt understand the post......
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dude just pray that feeling is mutual, so letting go wont be hard for any of you.
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leave it …
Jimmy kimble r u single or married
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single dude.
But have seen situations.
My cousin use to talk to her wife once in 2 days. "Kapry istry ker doon" "ker do" "khana kha leen" "acha"
along those lines.
Thats how much would they talk for some time a week.
He end up marrying an other girl.
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ths thread is nt for u …
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haww
Are you attracted to this person? Are you able to talk to one another easily? My husband and I were a bit reserved the first time we spoke, but we were able to talk comfortably about a variety of subjects, and there was definitely a mutual attraction.
Most importantly - I could definitely marriage with him. It's funny, but almost 20 years later I can still remember what he was wearing (of course, I dress him nicely now).
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hmmmm wht else ....
^:smack2: behta dont hangout with ur cousin…
D@rkNgt i fell in love with this guy who was really gud luking but i was blind enough to marry him .
… i thought abt him realisticly and knew its not gona work cuz he doesnt have any of the qualities i want in a husband…
and now i am married to a very handsome and gud luking guy even more the guy i fell in love with, he is very caring, sareef in a sense that he doesnt flirt with other gals, understanding and supportive (most of the time) infront of my inlaws, makes me laugh when ever he sees me down, he is not only my husband but also my frd but he doesnt have some of the qualities which i totally forgot about and to make dua for… who i thought was a perfect match but only found out later that zarori nahi haar camakti cheez sona hi ho…u only find out later what you are lacking and the thing u r lacking always seem so big…
life is never perfect…we humen r never satisfied !